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[W398]What Attracts A Women
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According to some studies, 3 out of 10 men are can attest that they really understand women.

The remaining 7, you ask? They are out in the haystack finding needles. This means that almost 70% of the men population in the U.S. contends that whatever they do, they still could not figure out how to understand women.

For this reason, men are having a hard time to figure out what attract women sexually and romantically in a relationship. 6 out of ten men attest that women are so unpredictable that what they thought women are attracted to, they suddenly realize in the end that it is not the right things after all.

So for those who are still confused, dazed, and perplexed on what attracts women, here is a list that could serve as your guide if you want to know how to catch your girl's attention:

1. Women are not attracted to “nice guys”

There are instances wherein some guys thought that in order to attract women, they must be good looking, smells really good, dress really good, and projects a goody-two-shoes image.

What these guys do not know is that, in reality, women are more attracted to men who project “bad-boy” image rather than those who are nice. This is because most women find nice guys relatively boring and uninteresting as compared to those who are funny and confident about themselves.

Surveys show that 30% of women value personality most. Though, this does not necessarily mean that women prefer nice personalities. What women would rather have are men who have lovable personalities brought about by their sense of humor and confidence.

The point is that some clinical studies done to uncover the truth about men and women revealed that men are, generally, more concerned with their looks, while women are more into the character and the way men behave around women.

2. Women are attracted to things that cannot be initially seen by the human eye

This goes to show that innate things, those that are not constrained by physical boundaries and limitations are what really attract women. Women are more concerned with what they cannot see literally. This could refer to personality traits, behavior, and attitude.

No wonder why most women would rather date a man who has good personality even if the guy is not good looking or he does not have a car.

3. Women are more attracted to men who knows how to handle themselves quite well

The problem with most men is that they are very egoistic that they are more focused on what the public would see them.

On the contrary, women are not so much on what makes a man but rather on how man makes out of himself. For instance, women are not concerned on the physical attributes of a man but more on how the man takes care of his body.

Another example, if a particular man is rich and famous, it may hold some possible attraction between the man and a woman. However, this will not guarantee that women will opt to have the rich and famous for a relationship. If the woman will be able to perceive how this man manages his finances well, then, that is the only time the woman will pay attention to the guy.

The point here is that material things like wealth, looks, physical attributes, education, influence, power, etc., still do matter. However, it these do not necessarily mean that these things are everything that a man needs in order to be attractive to women.

The truth is that in order to attract women, men must, generally, have nice attitude and personality. It is only when men make women feel that whenever women are with them, they would feel safe and secured.

Given all that, women and men view of the concept of attraction varies considerably. This goes to show that if ever a man would like to attract a particular woman, he should set aside his own point of view and interest, and instead, try to work out in order to catch the attention of the woman.


Take a look at romance novels. The hero is always an alpha
male. Submission guidelines for romance novels by publishers
place huge emphasis on the hero.

He must be someone the reader, presumably a woman, can fall
in love with. He must be primarily an Alpha male. Meaning,
he's the leader of the group. Not a wannabe or second in
command. He carries himself with confidence. Men look up to
him. Women fall at his feet.

Appearance-wise, invariably, he is lean and muscular with broad
shoulders. The kind of body a guy gets from a healthy lifestyle
with regular gym workouts. He is strong, yet treats his woman
with tenderness.

He is not afraid to pursue his woman. Now tread carefully here.
There's a fine line between what's acceptable and what's stalker
behaviour. Also, there are similarities between romance novel
heros and the serial killers in horror stories. What she reads
can influence her reaction to your behaviour. Pay attention to
the books she reads. If she's into crime stuff, pursuing her
relently and showing up at her workplace to court her can cause
her to panic, making her think more stalker than Romeo. If it
is romance novels she reads, surprising her with a huge bouquet
of roses at her workplace and serenading her at outside her
home will probably leave her starry eyed, or at least get her
to notice you in a positive light.

What can you do?

The easiest thing you can do to increase your attractiveness
to women is to head for the gym at least thrice a week and work
out with the maximum weights you can handle. Build your body
and the women would notice. From shoulders, to arms, to abs,
to butt, to thighs. Women like men with muscles. Go easy on
the beer. Apparently, romance novels typically have heros with
muscled abs and no flab. Think that is too much? What do women
do to attract men? Plastic surgery, boob jobs, starvation diets
just to look attractive to men. At least men don't have to survive
on lettuce leaves and have balloons inserted into their chests
to attract the opposite sex.

Beyond the physical appearance, a man's character counts. The
way he treats others. A caring man is more appealing than a
selfish lout. Okay, the Rhett Butler types appeal to romance
readers but in real life?

Carry yourself with confidence. Stand tall. Aspire to be the
best you can be in all ways. A positive attitude shows. Keep
your cool when others blow up. Your self control gives you the
edge and women notice such things. One of the differences between
the alpha whom women swoon over and the asshole who turns off
the women is not the appearance but the attitude. A guy who
growls all the time and blows up at the slightest provocation
and is so full of himself is an asshole. A guy who fights for
the rights of those under his protection, who takes responsibility
for his own actions, who is incredible patient and has great
self control is the alpha. The smart girls can tell the difference,
but the naive ones usually can't. Still, if you want your pick
of the women, better be an alpha than an asshole.

Sometimes a man may attract women for no obvious reason at all.
The attraction could happen at a chemical level. Humans like
animals secrete pheromones. These are sensed in a subconscious
level. Contrary to popular belief, pheromones are odorless,
though they are sometimes mixed into perfumes for that sex
appeal effect. If you want to go all out to attract women,
you can resort to pheromones. Not by refusing to bathe, but
by using a pheromone fragrances.

Article written by Mark Jones.
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