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I have asked several women what they want from a guy or what they are looking for in a man and every single woman that I have spoken to have responded to me by saying "I want a guy who can be my best friend and lover" and "I want a guy who I can have fun with and is not so serious", "I want a guy who has a direction in life and knows where he is going." If you want to know what women want then the simple way to find it is to ask and you shall find out and though every woman is unique and different so each one is looking for a real man.

Women want a man who is a leader in his own life they are naturally attracted to this quality and they want a man who can take them on the journey in life. Women want to be their own leaders in life but they want to be lead by a man at the same time. As a man it is your role to play this part in the woman's life, as the world evolves and times change so do era's and it's not like 10,000 years ago when a cave man would just go find a woman and use his club to knock her unconscious and then take her into his cave.

Women want and desire a man and think that they are becoming extinct as time goes on. They are starting to believe and accept that men think with just their head down stairs and are no challenge. What women want from you is to be a man and to have a direction in life a "life purpose" or at least to know why you are here in the meantime on this place called earth. Women want you to be that man who can make decisions for himself and does not seek approval from other people. Women want a man who can make women keep guessing and never know what is going to happen next. As long as you have a woman guessing the attracting will always be there but the day that the woman figures you out is the day the attraction dies and the relationship starts to decline.

Women desire a man so much that they ever wonder if they are going to meet one, which is how rare they are. Women have endless options with men and women have the power to have sex with any man that they won't because which man would not want to have a sex with an attractive women. Even though women must put you through those tests and games to see if you can keep and hold your composure for as long as you are together.

It is your role as a man to play this part in a woman's life and if you choose to not accept it then there are other men out there that will accept this role and take those beautiful women away from you in life.

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What do women really want? The most frequently asked question among males since ages. Have you ever tried to wonder why is it so easy for some males to attract many females whereas others are left in amazement thinking that he has it all and I do not. Do you really think that you either you have it or you do not? Do you really think that some people are just born with it? Well think again! Human brains are designed in such a manner that we can learn and master almost anything. The only difference between the one's who have it and the one's who do not is the difference in "boldness to act".

Do looks really matter to women?- of course they do! But it only constitutes 10% of your total personality. You can have the best looking face with a perfect body but if you lack the personality to go with it you can never get a women.

I have seen ugly guys dating hot women! How do they do it? - Well this is where the personality part comes in. They might not have the best looking face or the body but they have mastered the art of pleasing a women. Like I mentioned before looks only constitute 10% of your total personality.

Ok now enough about the looks. How can I please a woman? - I wish it was that easy to answer but people learn with time. Rome was not built in a day you see!

So what do I need to learn? - Well nothing can please a woman more than a "bold male". Whenever you see an attractive female just go up to her and talk. I have seen many males who lack the courage or maybe get very nervous even at the very thought of approaching a woman. They take so much time to act that usually some other male approaches her before they do or she just walks away. When the moment is right just act. Do not wait or think twice "just do it".

Ok now I have the courage to approach her. But what do I talk about? - Never rehearse too much about what you are going to say to her. Just be in the moment do not think too much. When the moment comes just talk about whatever comes in your mind. Be as original as possible. Do not use any of those witty pick up lines. They never work in the long run.

What if she says no? - Well the simplest answer to that is if you do it right you would probably succeed but if not just move on. Learn to respect yourself. If she rejected you she missed a chance to get to know a wonderful guy like you. It's her loss not yours.

Do women like obedient males? Stop right there! Women always say they like males who listen but they never admit to the real facts. Women have a strong attraction towards dominant males whether they admit it or not but it's a fact. They love males who like to take charge & make decisions for them.

Do nice guys always finish last? - Yes that is very true. Another fact women are not ready to admit is that they are attracted towards dominant males. No woman likes a so called nice guy. Nice guys always end up being used or abused by women.

So how do I become a bad boy? - Women do not like so called bad guys either. I used the term "dominant male" not a "bad boy". Be bolder & dominating in your approach but never over-do it.

Learn to respect yourself, learn to love yourself and the world would love you. Be confident about yourself. You might not have the looks, money, flashy cars but if you have the personality you can get almost any woman out there.

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