Learning body language is a science. Like every other science it can be learnt. Let me tell you about it. Have you ever gone to meet someone and got bored after sometime and wanted to walk away? You would find your legs turning towards the exit automatically. If the other person is a good student of body language, he/she will understand that you want to leave. In context of dating, it is important to learn body language basics to find out how your date is responding.
Signs that show disinterest by your date-
Arms crossed in a defensive posture Turning his/her body away from you, Inattentiveness to what you are speaking, Minimal physical contact, An occasional yawn and Very little eye contact
These are signs that your date is not interested. As one gets uninterested in someone, one tries to move away and reduce contact. If during a date, you read any of these signals what should you do? Best is to wait for some time and then ask the honest question - are you feeling uncomfortable, let me know. If yes, lets stop here. Ask honestly, so that you get an honest answer. Sometimes, the answer will be not what you expect, but body language is a sure way to find the real state of your date's mind.
Signs that show interest by your date-
Increasing physical contact Deep interest in what you are saying High level of eye contact, No sign of hurry, and Active participation in conversation
These are signals that your date is very interested in you. As anybody gets interested, he/she wants to increase intimacy and come nearer. These physical signals say that loudly. There will be no yawns. The eyes will be shining and there will be a smile on the face. When you spot these signals, be sure that the other person loves to meet you and be with you. If you are equally interested, respond similarly and take that date forward to another level.
During dating, many times, people want to act nice and are not honest enough about their true feelings. Body language tells you what is the truth.
Reading a man's body language enables you to see past all cover ups and defenses. There are certain cues which can tell you whether a man is really interested in you or is looking for another fish in the sea. If you want to learn these cues, read on!
1) Head Tilted to the Side
Want to know whether your man is listening to what you're saying or not? Check to see whether his head is tilted or not.
If it is tilted, then you can bet that he's hanging on to your every word. He's not just faking interest here. He is into what you two are talking about.
2) Muscles Flexing
Reading a man's body language is easy if you know where to look. A man is usually proud of his physique. When talking to a guy, check to see whether he is flexing his muscles or not.
This can be done openly with him demonstrating his bodybuilding prowess to you. Or it can be done subtly with him trying to help you reach for something and at the same time showing off his sculpted arms.
Although some girls consider this move a little too cocky, it really is just a man's way of trying to impress you. After all, most of them grew up thinking that the more muscles they have, the better. So just relax and enjoy the view!
3) Legs Apart
A man is definitely interested in you when he spreads his legs (no pun intended) and his torso is facing you. According to experts, this body language means that your guy is getting a wee bit territorial and would like to have you for his own. It's a totally subconscious move that you absolutely won't miss.
Reading a man's body language is easy when you know the meaning and reasons behind his actions. You don't even have to pretend like you're not checking him out because all these signals can be observed while conversing or dining with your man.
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