[C865]Communication In 21st Century

Exactly what problem are you attempting to address? Typically the vast majority of us need to become better focused about the things we are trying to achieve. This concerns everything without exception, from everyday practical matters to avoiding sore, difficult or awkward feelings. The mystery seems to be to do with how to achieve clarity and then to uncover the answers to problems. The 7 Words System offers a down-to-earth intuitive technique that enables us to get hold of a much better sense of what exactly we are trying to find. The process begins with No. To begin with, we will need name exactly what we don't want, what is not useful, before we can know what we do want.

Communication skills for 21st century: HELLO is about openness and exchange.

What can you learn from others? The next phase connects to the word Hello. We will need to open up to new potential if we have a desire to expand our possibilities of answers to the many difficulties that often arise for us. You agree? To get something new we will need to stretch our prospect of vision and look where we have not formerly looked earlier. Original ideas, new people, new places and new things are clearly facets of giving attention to something we have not previously come into contact with. This entails that we replace old for new, that can tender something in fair return for what are trying to get.

Communication skills for 21st century: THANK YOU is about appreciating and valuing.

What do you most value about the offered options? Between all of our opportunities, some are more attractive than others and of course we want them to have a higher worth, because we appreciate them more. This is explained by the primary word Thanks. Frequently, we overlook the significance of what we have, then blindly move into ingratitude and are likely to take things for granted. It's more than merely courteousness to display our appreciation for things we value; it has an important part to play in helping us to reach our targets. Unconsciously, we are attracted to what we pronounce our thanks for, and yet it's equally accurate to say that we will be able to magnetize them to us too. We build up our pulling power when we say Thanks and therefore, if we do so, we naturally bring things to come to us.

Communication skills for 21st century: GOODBYE is about realization, decision, completion, and moving on.

Whichever way you go, from now on life has changed and will be forever different. The word Goodbye is the fourth of the 7 primary words and has to do with a progression that has 4 clearly defined steps. They are: realization, decision, completion and moving on. What we are saying goodbye to a particular stage of development, and therefore can be seen simply as full-blown exclusion of a possible course of action that previously we had been progressing towards and in future will not engage in. It is a turning point in our choice of potential outcomes. Goodbye is different from No because it means that there has been a degree of some kind of involved interaction already, which now needs to end compared to No's repudiation in the first place. True decisions cut the past away unreservedly and that penetrating quality sets up an opening that otherwise does not arise.

Communication skills for 21st century: PLEASE is about intention and cooperation.

How do you cooperate to manifest your dreams? The future unfolds according to the habits of the past unless we take control of it and shape it to our needs. To do this compels us to have a vision of how we want it to be; this vision has to be very clear, unambiguous and optimistic�"and converted into intention. They differ don't they - vision and intention? The first is rather dreamlike and the second is much more focused and willful. For a dream to become real there must be cooperation. Nothing can be finished without securing the support of other people - this takes competence, most likely arguments, even inspiration. It is not always compulsory to proffer something such as money or money's worth.

Communication skills for 21st century: SORRY is about responsibility, remorse, repair and release.

Do you need to take responsibility and feel genuine remorse for your part in any conflicts and tensions that exist, which underlie the issue? Sorry, the 6th primary word, is best seen as making good damage done because we've been inconsiderate or oblivious to the circumstances of another. The best plan is to make sure we preclude the need to say it by being thoughtful sooner. For what reason? Well it's because anyone we upset could easily be inclined to act against us and reduce our likelihood of success, so it is obviously more shrewd to think about others as well as ourselves. This question is all to do with being responsible, having a degree of concern for anyone we've upset and offering reimbursement when we've made a mistake. Then and only then will it ever be possible to avoid or repair offense and leave go of the enduring nastiness that otherwise would grow and fester.

Communication skills for 21st century: YES is about accepting and surrender.

Not every path is workable, that's the whole point of being creative...find a way that works for all concerned. The closing phase of our 7 Words procedure is to do with acceptance; there are times when we simply have to accept what we cannot change. The word is Yes. It would be perfect wouldn't it if we were able to make the world exactly the way we envision it - but in reality we can't. We always need to withstand what comes, and to take what is not exactly what we asked for.

The greatest technique is to have conviction that everything in the long run turns around to our advantage, that the modifications to our plans are all improvements when seen in the perspective of the longer term. Certainly it's not easy to see it when we are still close and attached to our desires of course not! Still wait a bit and you may well see that the unlooked-for incidents, the surprises and disenchantments are actually the best bits disguised as hardships.