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[A185]Achieve Goals In Life
by Jim Somchai, Jim
One of the challenges that people have is to find out what they really want in life. We can say that we all want happiness. But it will be hard when we are asked to define what our happiness is. The point is if we do not really have a clear picture on what we want, we will not get it. Although most people know this deduction, still very few people dare to come out with specific goals to pursue. This separates the rich and the poor, the success and the loser. In this article, we will talk about how to find out your ultimate goals.

The real goal must have some qualities that motivate us. It must be in the area that we have passion on. It has to be able to keep us working all night long without any complaint. It should be in line with our inner values and makes us perform our actions without any conflict in our mind. It must be possible and achievable so that our brain accepts it as what we can do. How are we going to get this real goal in life? Come and explore what you need to do.

1.Imagine that you can only live for the next six months with excellent health. What will you set out to do during this time? What will you start or stop to do if you know that you have very limited time to live? List out all the things you want to do in this situation.

2.Imagine that money is no concern for you. You have just won a prize of ten millions dollars and do not have to worry about money any longer. What will you plan to do? What will you start or stop doing if this happens? Write down your actions under this assumption.

3.Imagine that there is a Ginnie comes out of a bottle. He allows you to ask for anything that you wish. What will you ask for him? Write down all you want him to give to you. You should not ask only what he can give but also who he can make you become. Who you want to become if you can be anything? What do you want to do?

The three scenarios will reveal your true values and desires. With no limitation or logical thinking, you allow yourself to explore into your real inner mind and dig out what you really want. Compare your three lists and see what come out as dominant categories on your lists. Highlight them and put them on a separate sheet of paper. Ask yourself which category is the most important thing you would want to have if your life is perfect.

Set up the priority for those dominant categories that you have. The very first rank in your new list may be your ultimate goal. Ask yourself why you really want this. What will you feel if you make this happens? And if it doesn't come out that way, what will happen to you? What will you feel? If your answer is yes, and you really want it, it's time to explore more on your reasons. Some time these reasons were masked by the disempowering beliefs from yourself or from the people surrounding you. Or they are overshadowed by your fear of failure. This is normal for everybody. The point is all those beliefs and fear are somehow from the poor assumptions of yours. They may come from the failure in the past or the failure of other people. All those experiences are not relevant to what you are looking at right now.

We need to release those beliefs and fears before we consider what we want most in life. Once we can do that. The clearest picture of our future will materialize.

If you are good at visualization, you will not have much problem on finding your destination or goals in life. Like Anthony Robbins said in one of his works "The Hour of Power", from thousands of people he has been coaching. He has never seen anybody who does regular visualization and not get what he wants. You can check out the power of visualization by personally practice it on yourself. I guarantee that it will worth your time and effort.

Not many people realize what they want in life and know how to find out. The three tips in this article will help you explore your inner mind and dig out your goals that will bring you joy and happiness.

What you want in your life will determine your strategies, your actions, and your beliefs also will determine what you will do when you fail. Do you trigger it as feedback or do you give up? You see, your beliefs are like the operating system to your brain.

They determine how we perceive the world and how we respond to what happens. They determine what we will or will not do or what we will or will not try.

The beliefs we have about a person determines how we interact with that person, whether you go out make friends, or whether you avoid a particular person. The beliefs you have about the kind of food will determine whether you eat that food.

The beliefs you have about the economy will determine the kind of business or career you will pursue. See, beliefs are one of the most single, most important filters that we have, and at any given time, we will have about two million bits of information hitting us at per second and it is physically impossible for us to be aware of everything that is happening around us.

And that is why two people can see the same movie, but come out having very different opinions and experiences about what the whole movie was all about. One person may remember all the long conversations and feel that the movie was totally boring.

The other person may focus on the dialogue and feel really moved by the interaction of the characters. See, both people filtered the same movie so differently. They deleted, distorted, and generalized and created a very different internal representation for the movie.

So, in order for our brain to cope, our mind filters all this information by deleting, distorting, and generalizing all this data into an internal representation of what is actually happening around us. So, in other words, we do not perceive reality, we perceive a filtered version of reality.

Here's an example of the power of beliefs.

Roger Banister was a marathon runner from Oxford, somewhere in the 1950-s, I think it was in 1954. What he did was that he set a goal to run a mile in less than 4 minutes. Now, bear in mind that no one in the world ever ran a mile in less than 4 minutes.

Everyone tried but failed, over and over again, until many doctors came out and said that it was physically impossible for a human being to run that fast. But, Roger Banister decided never to believe that. He did not want the belief to hold him back.

So, he decided to set a target for himself. Now, the difference was besides training physically, he would mentally prepare himself. The trouble was he had no evidences; no one could ever do it before. So, what did he do? He created it.

Again, the human mind could not tell the difference between what is real and what is clearly imagined in your mind. So, in his mind, he saw himself running and beating the mile in less than 4 minutes. He saw himself doing it again, and again and again. He created this evidence as if it was so real, that it became real for him. So what happened? He did beat the mile in less than 4 minutes.

But, that is not the amazing thing. The amazing thing that was that the minute he did that, within a year, about 37 other runners broke his record. Within a period of about 3 years, about 300 runners broke his record.

So, the question is this. Why is it for thousand of years, no one could run the mile in less than 4 minutes, but the minute one person does it, hundreds of people do it? See, what was holding everyone back was not their physical ability, was not their physical potential.

Therefore it is clear that what are actually holding many people back are their own beliefs. And it is precisely our beliefs that determine how we think, act and what we will or will not do in our life.
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