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[D46]Dating And Body Language
by Maurice Tate, Mau
Women also expect you to act on their flirting clues and signals. If a man does not act on a signal from the women, she could will see him as gutless and a wimp. Women, like a man that sees them as a sexual creature and is confident in his self and his sexuality.

The big advantage of becoming aware of a women's body language is that it can help you avoid rejection. You will avoid being rejected if you only ask a women out who has indicated from her body language that she is interested in you.

Simple hey!

Getting rejected by an attractive women is not a very nice feeling and it can damage your self confidence. Having good self confidence and a good self image is very important when talking to a women as she can read this easily in your body language.

Most women are expert in reading men's body language. In a few seconds a women can tell if a man is worth getting to know.

The more flirting signals the women sends, the more reliable the message of attraction. One body language clue is generally not a reliable signal. One needs to look for group of body language signals. Generally they will come in groups of five.

So what are some flirting signals that most women tend to use.

The first is hair touching or playing with her hair. The hair toss is a great one to watch for. To see an example of this , look at some TV commercials to see the hair toss in action.

Another way of telling you if she is interested is to look at how she sits. If she stands or sits with her crotch straight at you, this is a good sign.

Touching you is a great sign and moving closer and leaning into you when you are talking is a big plus.

Strong eye contact with bedroom eyes is a very good indication of attraction. Another is showing her breasts in some way. E.g. putting her arm under them to make the cleavage or leaning forward so you can see them.

Smiling at you and licking her lips and tilting her head as she talks are other body language signals.

Check out some TV ads and you will see the woman actors using the above signs of flirting body language signals! Also movies are a great way of learning body language as the actors are skilled at this aspect in their craft. It is good to look at the male actors too and see how they express their masculinity.

Women leave many of flirting signals when they are interested in a man. And the more signals they leave for you, the better is the chance that they *really* like you.

Have fun checking out women's flirting sigmals. You will be at a big advantage to other men if you start to tune in to the subtle clues.

Learning body language is a science. Like every other science it can be learnt. Let me tell you about it. Have you ever gone to meet someone and got bored after sometime and wanted to walk away? You would find your legs turning towards the exit automatically. If the other person is a good student of body language, he/she will understand that you want to leave. In context of dating, it is important to learn body language basics to find out how your date is responding.

Signs that show disinterest by your date-

Arms crossed in a defensive posture
Turning his/her body away from you,
Inattentiveness to what you are speaking,
Minimal physical contact,
An occasional yawn and
Very little eye contact

These are signs that your date is not interested. As one gets uninterested in someone, one tries to move away and reduce contact. If during a date, you read any of these signals what should you do? Best is to wait for some time and then ask the honest question - are you feeling uncomfortable, let me know. If yes, lets stop here. Ask honestly, so that you get an honest answer. Sometimes, the answer will be not what you expect, but body language is a sure way to find the real state of your date's mind.

Signs that show interest by your date-

Increasing physical contact
Deep interest in what you are saying
High level of eye contact,
No sign of hurry, and
Active participation in conversation

These are signals that your date is very interested in you. As anybody gets interested, he/she wants to increase intimacy and come nearer. These physical signals say that loudly. There will be no yawns. The eyes will be shining and there will be a smile on the face. When you spot these signals, be sure that the other person loves to meet you and be with you. If you are equally interested, respond similarly and take that date forward to another level.

During dating, many times, people want to act nice and are not honest enough about their true feelings. Body language tells you what is the truth.

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