When dating a woman online you must treat it with the same seriousness as you would when dating other women. It is not an easy thing to find out all about the woman but you have no other choice. After a while with the strange lady, you should know how to adjust to her likes and dislikes if you aim to impress the lady.
You can think up of other questions of the nature to open the floodgates. Do not interrupt her conversation because then you will do a big disservice to your self.
Listen to her carefully and you will be able to gather enough information that you may want to make your encounter with her a You must sidestep all the bad experiences she tells you she had during her previous online dating encounters.
You can know a lot about the strange lady from the answer she gives to this question. If she acts the role of superwoman who does not commit mistakes, you might as well move on to the next prospect. If she puts all the blame on herself, it is simply ridiculous that the other guy is blemish free. This attitude of mutually absorbing responsibilities for things that has gone sour is commendable. If you sense she is sincere with you, you might as well proceed with the relationship.
The ability to know more about the woman is a big asset that will help you make the meeting with the woman for the first time a pleasant encounter. The woman is like a shadow; you chase them, they will run away from you but if you leave them, they will come after you. When you are online with a woman, keep your conversation light and full of fun. Do not rush the woman to meet you face to face.
A solid foundation to a good lasting relationship is built on honesty and not on deceit. There is nothing to gain by lying about your appearance or job.
The woman might think you are a duplicate of the Hunchback of Notre Dame Post pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities. Show yourself from different and various angles that will give her an excellent idea of how you look like live in front of her in the face-to-face encounter.
Put yourself in her place and see how you would react in the same circumstances; surely suggesting that you meet for dinner at a secluded place will project an act of drawing her into a sinister trap of maybe sexual overtures. Don't suggest that the two of you go jungle trekking at any resort itinerary. She must ultimately feel safe with you around and around you.
Because each woman and situation is different, being able to create and maintain a magnetic balance in an interaction or relationship is something that requires plenty of practice and real-life experience.
For example: If you are too aloof, too cold or too selfish and don't show any feelings toward a woman, she will naturally seek to pick up the slack elsewhere, possibly from other men.
Aim for a balance between meeting and not meeting her needs. She will be happier for longer because there will be an ongoing challenge/magnetism.
General rule of thumb: Don't try to be Mr. Perfect. It won't work and is likely to backfire over time.
On the other hand, if you are too available and latch on to a woman like a lovesick puppy, you will become predictable, represent less of a challenge and create a 'stuck' feeling inside of her.
So what should you do to maintain the attraction and interest of a woman?
a) Never latch on too tight. b) Never push her away too far.
Interestingly, humans are always testing and checking to see how much or how little a person likes them by observing the other person's body language, behaviors, actions and words.
A woman will often test to see if you've 'latched onto her', by asking you questions like:
- Do you like me? - Are we good together? - Have you been thinking about me? - Did you miss me? - Do you love me? - Do you want to be with other women?
Although women may consciously verbalize that they want a guy to say nice things and express his feelings, doing so will diminish the intensity of a woman's attraction for you over time.
So, give her the gift of a magnetic balance by sometimes putting funny spins on her questions or by ignoring them altogether.
For example, if a woman asks the cliche question of "Have you been thinking about me?" you can playfully reply with something like...
You: Who are you again? Woman: C'mon! I've been thinking about you... have you been thinking about me? You: Well, I have been thinking about how I want you to give me a massage... I like the way you do that...and if you're good I might just do that thing you like afterward.
Here's another way to approach it:
Her: Did you miss me? You: You were gone? Oh, yeah I remember you! Her: C'mon! Did you miss me? You: Terribly! In fact, I missed you so much that...that... Her: That what? You: Well... so much, that I've written you a ten-page love letter. Want me to read it to you? Her: Hehe...umm, ok. You: Ok, here goes...Rebecca...the feelings I have for you are so intense...I really....really...hate you...I think we should break up...(start laughing here). Her: Oh! You!
Here's yet another way to approach it.
Her: Have you been thinking about me? You: (Pause) ...Hey check this out (and then start talking about something else e.g. what happened at work that day, a movie you saw, etc).
The irony is that the guys who do this are the ones who get the girls saying, "I don't know what it is about him. I just can't stop thinking about him."
Give your woman the gift of missing you, wanting you and chasing you. It will be worth more to her than any diamond ring, expensive dinner or 'I love you' teddy ever will.
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