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[D45]Dating A Younger Man

by Mary Bush, Mar

If you are looking for advice on dating a younger man, you should know that you are not alone. In fact the number of women dating younger man has increased tremendously.
Why is it when men date younger women, society gives him a wink and an "attaboy" pat on the back, but when a woman dates a younger man everyone around her seems so eager to hang the scarlet A around her neck? Has our society changed yet to where this double standard no longer exists? It depends on the couple. It depends on the gulf between their ages and what each party is looking for in this relationship.
Since women mature sexually much later in life than men, dating a younger man can make sense. But how young is too young? Obviously, both parties must be legal adults. You could face possible jail time if you don't adhere to this advice on dating a younger man!
But if you are both legal age, how old is too old? How young is too young? It depends on the individuals. Do you share the same interests? Does he intellectually stimulate you or is it just a physical thing? If what you two have is merely physical, you already know this relationship is temporary.
What do your friends and family think about the relationship? Sometimes your friends and family can be more objective than you can. If they are all saying the same thing, maybe they are seeing what you cannot or will not. Is he only using you to gain "experience" with women or does he truly have feelings for you? Perhaps you are mutually using each other. Do you trust each other when you are apart?
Is it possible for an older woman and younger man to have a strong, beautiful relationship? If the age difference doesn't bother either of you and you are both in this relationship because you care about each other and can both flourish in this relationship, go for it. If your relationship can withstand the critical remarks made by people who don't understand, go for it.
The road to any good relationship is not an easy one. All relationships take a lot of work and both parties involved need to be willing to do what it takes. But if you build your relationship on communication, trust and love, it will blossom into a thing of beauty. This is the best advice I can give on dating a younger man.

Dating a younger man might be more interesting for a woman because they are independent and can do things for themselves. A younger man usually has no issues with cleaning, do the wash, cooking and even making you breakfast on the weekends. Many older men have been raised in homes where the woman cooks, cleans and does the wash. Although you are dating, it is still nice to meet a man that will take care of you for a change. You might even find a younger man has no problem hearing you when you ask if the lawn could be cut or the toilet seat could be put down after they use it.

Dating a younger guy when you have children is a dream come true. They are not so old that they forgot how to play with a child. They are for the most part great with the children as long as they like children. Younger men are especially well adjusted to what teenagers like and do not like. They seem to have that understanding that young people have about different issues. Dating is hard enough if you do not have someone that can relate and get along with your children.

Another good reason for dating a younger man is they are more sensitive than an older man it seems. When you talk, they listen and actually participate in the discussion. The younger man is more attentive and just knows when to cuddle you and give you a much-needed kiss. They are not afraid to show there sensitive side as well. When you find someone like this, you want to keep him around. It is always nice being with someone that you can share your feelings and thoughts with and know that they are listening.

Younger men will more than likely be more exciting and fun to be around. They have no limits when it comes to doing things and walking on the beach holding hands or just playing a fun game of wrestling. Men who have gone through life and have more experience with life seem to take everything at its value instead of being spontaneous and fun. Women find that they feel younger with a younger man instead of being made to feel older with an older man. This makes for a happy relationship without the every day issues bringing you down.

The last reason that some women like dating younger men is because they have more of a sex drive than an older man does. Do not get scared by this fact. You might even say that the sexual experience is one that you have never experienced. They seem to enjoy love making more times and at different times than an older man does. A younger man is more determined to please you more so than an older man and is eager to learn what pleases you. These are just a few good reasons for dating a younger man, but there might be more depending on who you are and who he is.

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