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[A249]Adult Add And Relationships
by Tellman Knudson And Stephanie Frank, Tel

Once you have your money organized and you have excess, meaning all of your bills are paid and you're out of debt, then you can have something set aside for messing around, having just fun with.

We're going to talk with you about an ADD-friendly system that will help you to do just that. When you're down to the wire, when the money is not there and you don't know what to do, all you have to do is ask yourself two questions.

First, you have to make sure you're only spending money on absolute real necessities, which means food and shelter. After those two necessities are taken care of, there's only one other type of thing you should be spending money on, it's very simple.

Ask yourself this question: “This isn't food, and this is not shelter. If I buy this thing, how is this thing going to make me more money immediately, not long term? How is this thing that I'm going to buy right now put more money into my pocket?”

If you cannot answer that question, you do not buy it. If you can answer that question, and indeed it plugs directly into whatever you're doing with your job or your business, and it will indeed make you more money, then you have a winner. You can buy that thing.

We're talking about when you're in a desperate situation. The tactics that I'm sharing with you are desperate situation tactics, but even if you're not in a desperate situation, impulse purchases may still be a problem, especially for someone with ADD. How many times have we talked to people who said, “I bought seven programs and I don't know how to implement them all, but they all sounded so good”?

Don't bring your credit cards to an event, number one. Bring one check if you have to, or bring cash or your ATM card. The other thing is, you've got to apply this exact same principle to that situation. Ask yourself, "Is this particular, tactical piece of information what I need at this moment to make more money immediately?"

Once you get your money managed, get it squared away, get it growing for you, then you can start doing more experimentation because you have separate bank accounts set up for money experiments; for trying new things on a whim. You set up a separate account--a whim account--just for messing around with stuff.

When you're tight, and you're trying to change things, we strongly encourage you to be extreme, because it's a lot easier to go for extreme money management and get pretty good money management than it is to go for pretty good money management and not end up changing anything.

Plus, there is a proliferation of the term ‘multiple streams of income' in our society at this moment. “Oh, I've got to have multiple streams. I've got to have multiple sources of revenue.” Yes you do, but you don't need them all today. What we're talking about here in the concept of making more money, and making and saving money, is you've got to get your streams up one at a time. You build one, you tweak it, you make it run smoothly, you keep it going, you're comfortable, then you move on. But you have to focus your ADD and stick with it, as long as it's viable.

What you've got to look at in your own business is, "What's going to make me the most amount of money, even though I might not like doing it right this moment?" and focus on that stream of income.

The point we're making here is that you need to stick to the basics when your back is to the wall. Even when it's not, you have to curtail your ADD-induced impulse purchases, or your back will be against the wall. And, you have to run your business the same way. You have to use your ADD to hyperfocus on what's bringing in the most cash.

If you want something, ask youself, "Will this help me to make more money? Do I need it to make more money?" and base your decision on those questions. If you don't, you'll never have financial freedom. You'll never be stable, and you'll always be scratching for the buck. That's no way to live. Control your ADD, control your money, and you'll be happier all around.


We're in an informational age. Information is more available now than there's ever been in the world. More will be available tomorrow. Unless the entire Internet crashes, I predict thats going to continue for a long time. So, the question isnt, How many opportunities are there? or What is the best opportunity? because theres no such thing. Therell be a better opportunity tomorrow than the one youre working on today.

When you have ADD, its a blessing and a curse. When technology evolves at the speed of light and things are evolving full-tilt, were moving at rocket speeds, too. You need to ask yourself not whats the best opportunity for someone with ADD. You need to ask yourself what do you want to be known for? When your life is over, when everything is done, do you just want to have made some money, or do you want to have made something happen? Do you just want to be some schmuck who made some cash, or do you want to have done something of significance in the world?

I'll tell you, if youre paying attention, I certainly hope you want to do something of substance, because if you dont, if youre just chasing the buck, I can't help you. You can chase the buck all you want, and youll still be miserable tomorrow and the day after. Even if you get rich, youll still be miserable.

But if you want do something thats absolutely, undeniably, super-sonic important to you..

Maybe its just having a really wonderful relationship with your family. Maybe its making a fortune so you can donate it to support local artists. Maybe its finding a cure for cancer. Maybe its teaching everybody in the world how to use ADD as a strength. I dont know what it is for you, but I guarantee that you do, and if youre saying that you dont, youre probably just afraid to go after it.

Yet, even it youre going full tilt on something right now, that doesnt mean you have to do that for the rest of your life. It does mean that if youre going to spend your time doing something, it might as well be something youre incredibly passionate about. Just figure out a way to integrate that exuberance into being successful. I'm speaking to you from experience here, meaning I have ADD and Ive been in the exact same situation you may be in right now.

Focus on a goal, and really hone in. Once I figured out this course of action, I started accomplishing something in my life. I said, Okay, I have 10 great ideas a day (just like most of us with ADD). How do I actually use my ADD to implement one of them and get something done? I dont want to just stop having great ideas. I love thinking about new ideas. Its one of the things Im best at doing. I realized that when I had a great idea, I needed to figure out how I could take the really great aspect of it and apply it to my current project.

Even with ADD, you can train yourself to do this, but even in conversations when youre brainstorming with friends or business partners and random ideas come up, say, Hey, thats a really good idea. How do we apply that to what were working on?"

So, what does that have to do with ADD? It leads me to ask this question: What does everyone with ADD need? If I can come up with that, then I'll be great. Maybe theres some sort of food or recipes that people with ADD would like that they dont currently have access to, that they just wish they did. Now were talking about ADD again. High speed, super nutrition... and you bill it, "ADD Caf" or whatever it is.

The point is, you figure out how you can flip things and switch them around. Use ADD to be focused on your bigger goal, that thing that is really important to you in your life. That way your ADD can be the catalyst, rather than the impediment in your success.
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Tellman Knudson And Stephanie Frank has sinced written about articles on various topics from Family Concerns, Finances and Careers and Job Hunting. Tellman Knudson, certified Hypnotherapist, is CEO of Overcome Everything, Inc. Stephanie Frank is an internationally known speaker and author of "The Accidental Millionaire." Find out if you have adult ADD. Take the ADD test at. Tellman Knudson And Stephanie Frank's top article generates over 5400 views. to your Favourites.

Tellman Knudson & Stephanie Frank has sinced written about articles on various topics from Finances, ADHD. Tellman Knudson, certified hynotherapist and NLP practitioner, is CEO of Overcome Everything, Inc. Stephanie Frank is a world renowned speaker, coach, and author of "The AccidentalMillionaire." Learn the secrets to controlling your ADD at Instant ADD Suc. Tellman Knudson & Stephanie Frank's top article generates over 720 views. to your Favourites.
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