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[D583]Don T Trust Women
by Darryl Templer, Dar
There are a lot of females out there that have been abused by their fathers, uncles or other family members at a young age and I’m not talking just physical abuse but mental as well. And this has a major impact later in their lives trying to trust other males. Who can they trust and how much can they be trusted most females just don’t want to talk about their past as its just too painful for them and cant be pushed into talking about it. Others will give a brief idea that they were abused one way or the other but will not be drawn into giving details like who it was that abused them.

Other females need to have a bit of a trust factor before they even think of going home with a male, as for all they know the people could be a real nasty piece of work when they away from other people and have this single female in their hands or how does she know that this person is not a carrier of a sexual transmitted disease and maybe infect her or that he without her knowledge has sex with her without using a condom, once the lights are out who knows.

If you put a male in the same position as a female I’m not too sure if he could handle it with all the pressure on them in risking their lives to almost a complete stranger they just met at a pub or club and he couldn’t defend himself and it does happen to men but just not heard about as much as it is with females.

So remember if you are out at a club and meet a female and you want to try and score with her and she turns you down, it might not be for the reason you are thinking it might be a whole bigger picture you just don’t know about. If you really interested in this female its might be just a lot easier to give her your phone number and ask her to contact you when she next like to meet up as you don’t want to put pressure on her but you are interested in meeting again, start building that trust factor slowly.

You have to remember that a female wants to have trust in a relationship to be able to talk about anything and know that the male will listen even ask questions on the topic and be prepared it may be anything. She has to know that you are committed as much as she is in the trust factor and not just playing her so you can sleep with her and move on to the next lady you meet.


Following the credit crunch the government has called for protection against people losing their homes, and said that turning families out of their homes should be a last resort. So it beggars belief to learn that you could be forced to sell your house for as little as one thousand pounds of debt as a loan or on a credit card. All that is required is a ‘charging order' to make this happen.

The use of charging orders, first introduced in 1980 to enable creditors to force borrowers to sell their house if they can't pay off their debt any other way, has increased by 100 per cent over the past couple of years. That is a massive increase in their use, and of course equates to a massive increase in the number of people losing their homes.

Under the revised terms of the Tribunals, Courts and Enforcement Act 2007, banks would not need a County Court judgement to force someone to sell up in order to repay their debts. Even if the home owner had got official agreement for a repayment schedule through the courts and were adhering to it, the banks would still have the power to force a sale.

The new measures were devised to stop people arranging low monthly repayments and freezing their interest, and then selling their house anyway, thus cannily saving on the loan interest. But the majority of people who have negotiated a repayment schedule and are making regular payments as required just want to hang onto their homes, and they could still be at risk of this draconian law.

Although the revision had received Royal Assent, the Ministry of Justice has decided not to go ahead with the new terms by the time being. But it is not all good news for borrowers because the revision would also have decreed a minimum limit of debt due before a sale could be enforced, and that has also been put on hold.

So that is why it could happen that someone is forced to sell their house to cover as little as 1000 pounds of unsecured debt.

A spokesperson for the Ministry of Justice admitted that, although the revisions to strengthen the Act had been held back to protect borrowers, it was possible that some people would have to sell up to repay fairly small debts.

The Lib Dem Treasury spokesman Vince Cable said, “No one should be allowed to lose their home simply because of a credit card debt. More needs to be done by the government to ensure that lenders simply do not act overzealously, and only take possession of properties as a last resort. The fact that banks can now kick people out of their homes for not keeping up with their unsecured debts is very worrying.”

The Citizens Advice Bureau also said the Act would make it ‘easier for creditors to get their money'. However they would not comment on the Act itself as the minimum limits for charging orders had not yet been set.

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