Has your boyfriend dumped you? To win back ex boyfriend, try dating someone else! Okay, to you that sounds crazy! You are just not going to do it, it is completely counter-intuitive. You're flat out not going to do it! Right? Well what if it's the right thing to do and by doing it you move yourself closer to getting back together with your ex boyfriend? Would you do it then?

I know you are saying: "explanation please!" All your instincts are telling you to chase after him. You want him back, right? You are in a mad panic and you just want to get right back into that relationship. You do not want your ex boyfriend to forget about you. You are scared stiff he will meet someone else before you have him back.

Don't worry, if you had anything going, your ex boyfriend is not going to forget about you so soon. Even though you broke up, I promise you he is still thinking about you. If he is not, he is not worth it and you are better of without him! Plus if he still has strong feelings for you, just because he's dating someone else it doesn't mean there's no way back for the two of you. So there's really no need to panic! You have to keep a level head here if you want to succeed.

As funny as it may sound, to win back ex boyfriend trust taking some time out is the right thing to do. So, take that time out. It is most important that you do not contact him during this time you are away from him. To win back ex boyfriend just let him get on with whatever he's doing and you do the same.

Accept that you're not going to be contacting your ex boyfriend. Now it's time to put on your best outfit, reconnect with your friends and get out and have some fun. Not only will this keep you busy and stop the temptation to call your ex, but it will also boost your confidence no end.

Don't let your desire to win back ex boyfriend stop you from going out with someone else. If you meet someone who you feel you'd like to date, go for it! Remember, you're not actually in a relationship with your ex, you've broken up and you're a free agent. So if you're emotionally ready to have some fun, go ahead and have some!

Okay, now you also have to make sure you do not hurt someone else. Make it clear to whoever you decide to date that you're not interested in anything heavy or full on, you just want to have some fun. Do not give someone false hope. You have to remain trustworthy at all costs!

Be sure you understand that you are not doing this to make your ex boyfriend jealous. You are only keeping your spirits high and you are only helping yourself come to terms with the situation with your ex boyfriend. You never know, you might enjoy this new guy so much that you decide that getting back with your ex boyfriend is not what you want to do after all. Equally, using this time apart to explore how you feel, can be a real way to win back ex boyfriend.