I am NOT a very fashionable type of guy.
Usually it is my girlfriend who pick the clothes for me - not for my benefit...
... but so that she doesn't feel embarrassed when we go out in public together!
If it were up to me, I'd wear sweats and a t-shirt all day, with some old worn out sneakers. I mean, I think fashion is pretty silly.
I definitely appreciate the artistic aspect of fashion style and design. It is like a work of art when I look at a very well dressed woman, I dig that.
But when a guy is "too stylish" I kinda lose respect for him.
Don't misinterpret me, a man should present himself like he means to be taken seriously. A nice suit, good quality, well-fitting clothes are a basic of being a masculine.
But some men take it too far.
The case is, the obsession with "peacocking" in the pickup Community for the past several years.
Hearing that words makes me cringe.
YOU ARE NOT A PEACOCK.
Let me explain what is "peacocking," in case you're not familiar.
There was an emergence of routine-based "game" a while ago that rely heavily on superficial techniques, status games, and over-analysis of social interactions.
I didn't see the value of any of this, and have always gone in the opposite direction.
Reason for this is that I saw how pretending to be someone other than yourself, and saying jokes and routines that other guys came up with JUST FELT WRONG.
On top of that, the PRIMARY FOCUS of all that strategizing and game-playing was to covertly get approval from women, while making them feel insecure so they'd think you were cooler than them.
Think about the layers in the dating approach. Not only are you faking your personality because you
a) look for approval (as if girls were an authority on what makes man a man)
b) hide the truth that you're looking for approval
c) play games that will make women feel insecure so that they will try to seek your approval
YUCK
"Peacock," is one of the main techniques of this approach as to dress up in a really loud, ostentatious way so that women would "notice" you and want to talk to you.
Now there's nothing wrong with wearing a nice watch, or a necklace that has some personal meaning.
I don't want women to like me because of that.
I'm sure a lot of you guys have seen the advocates of this approach on TV shows, straining to make sense out of this hare-brained "technique."
I've personally encountered students of other pickup schools, and felt sad because these poor guys were not only nervous, clumsy, misdirected...they looked RETARDED.
So I want to make a direct proof when it comes to fashion and approaching women.
There are few pieces of things you need to pay attention to when it comes to your physical looks.
After you get this stuff handled, you should put it out of your mind, and not wait for women to notice you before you TAKE ACTION.
Before moving on, I have something to expose.
(To be Continued in Part 2)