So as PUA's we need various styles and tricks to express overt sexual interest but also have an 'escape hatch' if she calls us out on it.
Let's talk about a very widely used technique we utilize to convey sexual interest...'Bedroom Eyes:'
One obvious benefit about sustained 'bedroom eye' contact is it's certainly not gonna land you in the friendzone.
And I'm a strong advocate that you should go practice in front of a mirror or a good buddy. (Just try not to start kino-ing them;)
For me, 'Bedroom Eyes' feels something like this:
- My head is often cocked slightly to the side or back as if I'm examining her
- My head can be still but can also have slow sustained movement
- The lids of my eyes are easy and relaxed, not wide eyed
- I'm not afraid to hold her gaze just slightly longer than what is 'socially acceptable'
- I drink in her eyes and relish the moments when she breaks the eye contact first
- My subtext is: "You have me intrigued...if you prove yourself, I will screw your brains out...maybe..."
Now...
Even after you get really good at doing this you will almost always get called out on it by her, particularly if you are with her for an extended period of time.
Here is a brilliant counter I developed to deal with her when she does:
*What's below should all be playful, and you should really get her to do it*
Her: "You keep looking at me with this sexy stare." You: "What are you talking about?" Her: "Yeah, you keep looking at me...I don't know..." You: "Ok, since I have no idea what you're talking about, can you show me what I am supposedly doing?" Her: "I'm not sure if I can imitate it." You: "Come onnnn, show me;) Let's see this look you SAY I'm giving you."
*she imitates*
You: "Oh my God. That might be the sexiest thing I've ever seen. Is that I how I look to you when I'm doing it? Wow. You should keep on doing that!"
She will laugh, but the laugh is not the real payoff. You have now started a game with her that you will continue throughout the interaction, periodically getting her to show you the 'look' again...
The trick is now you've got HER giving YOU bedroom eye contact too which accomplishes 3 things:
1. You've got yourselves a fun little game you can always go back to.
2. This kind of play amplifies the sexual chemistry.
3. Her making the face actually reinforces in her mind that she really is attracted to you.
Enjoy,
Julian
I call it- 'Perfume to Her Room'
I usually use it on a first date, but for the more advanced it can also be used immediately after opening her. In this example, let us assume that you both agreed to meet at a bar for a date and you've just walked in. (Because naturally you were later than her right?;)
Step 1: Create an excuse to get physically close to her. (hug, high five, doesn't matter)
Step 2: Notice her perfume.
Step 3: Say something like: "Oh my God, what is that?? That smells amazing!" Even if it stinks. You will now have a valid reason to continue smelling her throughout the evening.
Step 4: Look for good chances to keep smelling her throughout the interaction. You can say something like, "Man, your perfume really is great, I gotta smell that again." Don't ask for permission to smell it, you simply can't resist!
Providing you are both having a decent time this trick will allow you to smoothly transition from innocently smelling her to eventually nuzzling your face in her neck. Now at some point she will become totally conscious of what you are doing...but that's okay! Typically you have already created a good amount of intimacy by the time it happens and she would be fine with it.
So you may be wondering, 'how many times over the course of a date should I actually smell her?'
As many as you like. Usually I am in the ballpark of 4-8. It is not the number of times you do it that matters most but the progress of becoming more intimate with her.
You may also be wondering, 'when is the best time to do it?'
I personally like to save it for right after a highpoint in the interaction. (A meaningful eye contact, a moment of fun, laughter, etc.) However, these dating tips can also function as a failsafe to pull out of your back pocket if you run out of things to talk about or you want to change the subject.
And finally, what happens when she says, "I'm not wearing any perfume." Simple adjustment: Do everything explained above just change the word perfume to soap or even natural scent. Ex: "Not perfume?? No way, I don't believe you. Let me check again... (you double check;) Well, you've got the best damn natural scent I've ever smelled. Wow."
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