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[T962]Tips Picking Up Girls

by Matt Fuller, Mat

Bar staff have front row seats into the singles and dating scene every time they turn up for a shift. Every night, barmen and barmaids observe men and women either sinking or swimming in their quest to hook up for the night. Long term bar staff will have observed all the pick up lines that work, and equally, the ones that fail miserably. Ben, a seasoned barman from the Coogee Bay Hotel in Sydney Australia shares some advice for your benefit.

"Firstly, you need to scan the room in a subtle nature to determine the single girls. Once you spot the girls you fancy, casually move over near them. Observe when she moves away from her table and heads over to the bar, stand next to her and offer to pay the barman for her drink. She will at least show you some appreciation for your gesture, and if she is keen, she will hang around for a chat."

"What they are drinking says alot about them and goes along way to making an impression. Most women around the city bars and clubs are drinking pink or blue alcoholic drinks, commonly referred to as lolly water. Look for a girl who is knocking back bourbons or scotch, these women unquestionably have a little more mystery about them. Equally for men, if you stand around drinking beer, you will blend into the crowd, order a cocktail or a few shots instead. Drink something that suits your personality, and have a funny story to go with it as a conversation opener."

"Most guys don't know when to walk away. From my experience, if your hitting on someone for more than 3 minutes and your not getting the right vibe, know when to walk away. I can't recall ever seeing a guy change a girls mind after giving it his best shot for more than around 3 minutes. Don't embarrass yourself, its not going to happen."

"A common myth that needs to be dispelled is that only bad boys or sexy and smooth guys can pick up. I see women respond much better to men who come across as sincere and thoughtful. Most women are sick of being approached by serial players whose only goal in life is to pick.

"Its simple to pick the girls who have come out to play and flirt. When you spot a group of girls that have arrived together, they will often cue up at the bar in the hope of being hit on. If they are drinking cocktails and shots, these girls are there for the same reason as you - to have fun and chat to other singles."

"Spend up, its worth it. Buy a few bottles of champagne and send it over to a group of girls. I know this seems like the oldest trick in the book, but it works, I've seen it happen time and time again. If your looking to make an impression, this is such a stylish approach".

Sadly, some people (men and women) don't feel comfortable or confident going to bars to approach strangers, the pressure for some is enormous. Loads of singles are using online dating sites to hook up. Besides the convenient and economic advantages of online dating sites, if you have an internet connection, getting acquainted with other singles is simple and can be done without leaving the house. For those who live for the thrill of the chase, and thrive on the social atmosphere, online dating may not be for you.

It's a fact that women love jewelry. Thus, the saying, "Diamonds are a girl's best friend." Well, okay, it doesn't have to be diamonds, but women in general, have a fascination for jewelry. As a bride-to-be, I'm sure you will be wearing jewelry as you go down that aisle. So if you're wearing some, it's just right that other ladies in your entourage wear jewelry too, right?

If you're the kind of bride who's not so much into jewelry, you probably might find it hard to choose just the right ones to put on your bridesmaids. But worry not, there's help for you. There are a few tips and guidelines that you need to keep in mind in choosing the right jewelry for your bridesmaids to wear.

First thing you have to remember, is that your bridesmaids come in different shapes and sizes. And they come with different haircuts too! Some have short, cropped hair, some have shoulder-length hair, some have hair that fall all the way down to their waist. The thing is, they're different people, with different looks, and making them wear only one kind of jewelry will not produce good results.

Now you might ask, what's the connection between hair and jewelry? Well, you see... there are jewelry that don't go well with long hair, and at the same time, there are jewelry that don't go well with short hair. It's all about what looks good on your bridesmaids and what doesn't. Like, for instance, If your bridesmaid has large ears, it's not wise to have her wear long, dangling earrings because it will draw attention to her ears (which you need to avoid). So be observant, and know what works with your bridesmaid's appearance.

Also take note of your bridesmaid's necklines. Do their dresses have plunging necklines? Are they wearing halter top, tube, or spaghetti-strapped dresses? You wouldn't want your bridesmaids to wear a choker type necklace while they're wearing a halter top dress, would you? That wouldn't look good. Be careful to choose appropriately and make sure the jewelry you choose are all in the same shades of color, and the same style or material. That way, they all go together to create a pleasant effect.

As to the type of jewelry to give out, you can give out different kinds. Pearls are traditional, and they can be in white or pink. Crystal jewelry can add sparkle and elegance. A tiara would look beautiful too, making your bridesmaids feel like princesses on your wedding. No matter what type of jewelry you give out, it does not have to be expensive. There are lots of stores that offer discounts when you buy in bulk or sets. So don't be afraid to look!

Jewelry doesn't just make a girl pretty, it also gives them a glowing aura that radiates happiness and glamor. So make your bridesmaids glimmer and glow on your wedding day by giving them bridesmaid's jewelry. They'll definitely shine like nothing else.

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