There is really only one way to prove to authorities if your child is being abused and that is to trust the person who watches your children in the first place. But often the person you trust is a child abuser or even worse, a child molester which will psychologically destroy the child later in life. So who can you trust. The sad truth is you can trust no one. Not you fiends, spouse, babysitter or relative.
The best way is to install a hidden cameras into rooms so you can monitor your child to see what is going on when you are away and can't be with your child.
The hard core facts are that today, Most abused and neglected children never come to the attention of government authorities because it's a case of he said/she. Child abuse statistics in our government are never accurate. Authorities ask parents to recall and report abuse that they may have experienced in childhood. Many child abuse stories you here go unreported due to lack of concrete evidence that the abuse even happened at all!
Also, there are many types of child abuse from physical neglect to hitting or beating or just verbal abuse which sometime is even worse than physical abuse. Then there is incest which is when the parent has sex with his or her child which will totally mess the child up for life.
Using hidden cameras is key rooms where your child spends his time is vital to insure that he or she is safe from child abuse. At the very least, by using a hidden camera you will be able to prove to authorities that the your child was definitely abused therefore you will be able to prosecute that person with authorities later on.
We give you a list of some of the best hidden cameras than can be used to prevent child abuse or at the very least prove that your child was abused by a nanny, babysitter, friend or parent.
1) The Air Wick Fresh Matic hidden camera is non-functioning as an air freshener but is perfect as a hidden camera. You'll be able to see everything happening and watch your child in the comfort of any room in your house and catch child abuse before it happens.
2) A Hidden Camera disguised as a Puppy Dog that lets you see and hear everything using a hidden camera and speaker. The signal is transmitted to a hand-held portable LCD monitor that you can carry around the house while doing chores or housework.
3) Yellow Monster Hidden Camera Disguised as a Yellow Monster put this in where your young child or baby is to safeguard against potential child abusers.
4) The Down-View Smoke Detector hidden camera works by mounting it to the ceiling. Put it in locations where your child is in the most until you get home.
Many other ordinary everyday objects can have hidden cameras in them that are completely undetectable by a potential child abuser.
Each of the above hidden cameras are designed to attach to your TV or to a Digital Video Recorder in which you can record all the activity that the camera sees.
Many times monitoring for child abuse from a remote location is very desirable. Many parents today work on computers at work and need a way to monitor their children when at work to make sure they are safe from child abuse. So there is a 4 Channel Wireless Visec Surveillance System that really is a great and easy system to set up. It can monitor and record up to 4 rooms. Perfect to see pictures of child abuse or detect signs of child abuse.
The best part about a Visec Surveillance System is that the cameras are out in full view and by being visible will let the child abuser know he or she is being watched thus making it less likely your child will be abused in the first place!
Procrastination is all about dodging something unpleasant. Most of us want to escape from following the rules that are imposed by those in authority. Is your child starting to show signs of becoming a procrastinator? Does he postpone putting clothes away, doing homework, studying for tests, finishing projects, or being on time? Do you find yourself nagging, yelling or punishing to no avail? What's a parent to do?
These behaviors make sense if we look at them from a new point of view. Wouldn't you prefer to kick back, relax or play rather than go to work, do the laundry or mow the lawn? So would your children. Adults choose to go to work or do tasks while children have no choice. I call this type of delay tactic, "I don't wanna, and you can't make me!"
Did your parents call you lazy? Lazy is what they called you when you didn't do what they wanted. Do you tell your child that she is lazy? Negative labels can wound and continue to plague us years after we have left home. When you are confronted with the "I don't wanna" behavior try the Stop, Look and Listen Plan.
STOP nagging. Take some time to be alone and think about the problem. What is your goal for your child? Be specific. Are your expectations fair and reasonable for a child this age? If in doubt, check it out with a child development expert. Remind yourself that most children do not want to do jobs they don't enjoy so why wouldn't they prefer to play instead? What is your attitude about doing your chores?
LOOK inside yourself. What are you afraid will happen if your child doesn't do his homework, chores, etc? Are you afraid that he will fail in school or in life? Are you afraid of what people will think about your child or about you as a good parent? Do you demand that your child do what you want because you want it that way? Why do you want it that way? Put yourself in your child's place. Try to remember times when your parents or teachers put what you considered to be unreasonable demands on you.
LISTEN to what your child's behavior is telling you. Problem-solve with your child and let her tell you what she would like to do. If you have a toddler and are teaching your little one how to do certain chores, you might make a game of picking up toys. When children are older you can discuss the problem. Certain responsibilities are non-negotiable. Explain that your son must do his homework, but let him decide whether he will do it before or after dinner. Set a timer and let your child do something she enjoys until the timer goes off. Turn your monarchy into a democracy and give your child a vote. Trust your children to tell you what they think and how they feel. Respect their ability to help find solutions.
When children are older have a family meeting and list the responsibilities and jobs that the adults think are appropriate. Let your youngster help with the list. Make a chart with three columns. Column one is the list of tasks. Column two denotes when or how often each item is to be completed. Column three lists a logical consequence that will occur if that particular assignment is not done. Allow your son or daughter to help decide what a fair consequence should be. Then, if you have to impose it, they will accept it more easily.
Criticism and punishment lead to fear of a harsh authority, which in turn leads the child to build up resentment and behave rebelliously toward authority figures in general. The outcome is procrastination. Use the Stop, Look and Listen Plan now and prevent your child from developing a lifelong habit that will lead to unhappiness and unpleasant consequences in the future.
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