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[N145]Never Be Afraid To Say What You Feel
by John Childers, Joh
Did you ever notice in looking from a train window that some horses feed near the track and never even pause to look up at the thundering cars, while just ahead at the next railroad crossing a farmer's wife will be nervously trying to quiet her scared horse as the train goes by?

How would you cure a horse that is afraid of cars--graze him in a back-woods lot where he would never see steam-engines or automobiles, or drive or pasture him where he would frequently see the machines?

Apply horse-sense to ridding yourself of self-consciousness and fear: face an audience as frequently as you can, and you will soon stop shying. You can never attain freedom from stage-fright by reading a treatise. A book may give you excellent suggestions on how best to conduct yourself in the water, but sooner or later you must get wet, perhaps even strangle and be "half scared to death." There are a great many "wetless" bathing suits worn at the seashore, but no one ever learns to swim in them. To plunge is the only way.

Practice, practice, PRACTICE, in speaking before an audience will tend to remove all fear of audiences, just as practice in swimming will lead to confidence and facility in the water. You must learn to speak by speaking.

The Apostle Paul tells us that every man must work out his own salvation. All we can do here is to offer you suggestions as to how best to prepare for your plunge. The real plunge no one can take for you. A doctor may prescribe, but you must take the medicine.

Do not be disheartened if at first you suffer from stage-fright. Dan Patch was more susceptible to suffering than a superannuated dray horse would be. It never hurts a fool to appear before an audience, for his capacity is not a capacity for feeling. A blow that would kill a civilized man soon heals on a savage. The higher we go in the scale of
life, the greater is the capacity for suffering.

For one reason or another, some master-speakers never entirely overcome stage-fright, but it will pay you to spare no pains to conquer it. Daniel Webster failed in his first appearance and had to take his seat without finishing his speech because he was nervous. Gladstone was often troubled with self-consciousness in the beginning of an address. Beecher was always perturbed before talking in public.

Blacksmiths sometimes twist a rope tight around the nose of a horse, and by thus inflicting a little pain they distract his attention from the shoeing process. One way to get air out of a glass is to pour in water.

Be Absorbed by Your Subject!

Apply the blacksmith's homely principle when you are speaking. If you feel deeply about your subject you will be able to think of little else. Concentration is a process of distraction from less important matters. It is too late to think about the cut of your coat when once you are upon the platform, so centre your interest on what you are about to say--fill your mind with your speech-material and, like the infilling water in the glass, it will drive out your unsubstantial fears.

The exchange of a marriage vow usually include pledges like being faithful also directing their unconditional love for the partner. Are you contemplating personalizing your own wedding vows and not sure who to turn too for advice then go online and click wedding vows for assistance in gathering more information.

Free wedding vows can have an effect on the way traditional ceremonies are carried out at weddings. Good news on free wedding vows off the internet besides being free is you are in control of the choice of words for your service thus allowing you to say what it is you want to say and mean it. Free sample vows are there for modification if needed.

By altering the words of traditional vows read out at a wedding gives you the opportunity to say, that on this special day you did it your way. There are vows specially devised for second marriages and couples with ready made families.

Worth considering is a piece of poetry which is a common practice when pledging vows, poetical words come from within.

Good advice for the couple is to sit down in private and talk things through before making any decisions on the changes they want made to their wedding plans.

This way when both are agreed, you have the have happy couple before the wedding and an even happier couple after the exchange of vow all because the words spoken showered your loved one with what they wanted to hear.

The secret behind a good wedding vow is that the words should fill the air with love and affection. Nothing can compete and ever will with a genuine heartfelt promise to cherish forever.

Infinty together forever if the words spoken are to mean what you really feel.

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