You need a guide. Almost all new parents need guides, so don't you worry about it.

Try these simple tips:

? Close the baby names book or list you found on the net

Pick some that you like best without having to refer to those names in the book or list. Simply use your brain and heart. Make a list of five to ten names. This has to be done by both parents. After it's done, check out each other's list. Some are lucky enough to find a name that they both like.

? Find the meaning

For some culture a name can be a hope for the children. Yet, you wouldn't want to have a child whose name might be cute or unique yet has a bad meaning. Now, it's time to check out the book or some sites on the net.

? Check out the initial

Ok, now you have decided that the first name would be Rebecca. Your last name is Taylor. If you don't want the initial to be R.A.T., don't give Anna as the middle name.

? Get the right combination

Some names aren't good together but some others don't. So, make sure you make the right combination. The first, middle and last name should sound beautifully.

? Don't choose a name that can cause frustration to your child

No, of course you don't want that. That's why you'd better think wisely about it. How would you feel if given such a name? If you don't like it, neither would your child.

? No need to hurry

Take as much time you need.