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by Steve Strong, Ste

Our home is somewhere where we should feel safe and comfortable at all times and be able to shut the outside world away. For many people there are times when our private space becomes invaded and we have intruders, there are many ways that we can help to prevent this from happening and protect our families and possessions. Home safety devices and security has become big business and there are so many different products on the market that it becomes a hard choice as what to choose and when it should be used.

The market can be broken down and there should be particular focus paid to the outside and the inside of the building, each area requires a different method of protection.

When looking into the security of the external perimeter of the home there are a number of devices that can be used. Secure gates and padlocks are a good idea to prevent people from entering your back yard, even an open gate can be an invitation for someone to come in and have a look around. Make sure your garage and your external buildings are secured such as the shed or outhouse, many thieves will not make the effort to break into your home but are looking for quick gains that they can find in a garage or shed that is not locked. If you are looking to install a security system then installing security lights that can detect motion in the garden or on the front drive would be a good idea. The lights are very bright and will be able to detect any movement from a person and will often protect areas that otherwise would be dark and vulnerable.

Lots of people are also looking into the security camera path for protection and have installed monitoring systems, cameras are a good idea but the systems can be expensive and may not be necessary for a smaller house. Protecting the outside of the house is the first line of defense, in order to have a complete system the inside of the property needs to be secured as well.

Home safety does not need to be expensive and simple measures can help to prevent the everyday burglar from getting into your house easily. Window locks and good quality door locks make the task harder and often an easy target is what they are looking for. Installation of a burglar alarm system is also a good idea, if the budget is tight though then there are dummy systems that can be installed which will act as a deterrent. The more visible security that you have the less likely it is that you will be targeted. Motion detection systems and security monitoring systems can all be setup inside the home too; it is possible to do this at a reasonable cost due to the advance in technology and the availability of the products. Home security and safety should be taken seriously and it doesn't have to be expensive to implement a good tight system in your home.

As a general rule, festivities at holiday time, provide for a joyous season. Although it can be a particularly difficult time for many seniors, who may be remembering those dear to them that are no longer here to be with them to celebrate. Many seniors also exhibit behaviors of depression, and have increased anxiety and agitation due to feeling overwhelmed. Holiday stress can also increase their physical and mental issues to further complicate the season. Here are some tips to help your elderly loved one at holiday time:

1. Encourage remembrances of wonderful memories: Old photos, family movies and old-time music through photos, family videos and music from yesteryear. Stimulate memories to encourage our elders to share their remembrances.

2. Plan ahead. To encourage participation for the senior, plan ahead so that you have someone rested to have the stamina to enjoy the planned activities, party, etc.

3. Create a senior friendly environment: If you plan on taking your loved one out to celebrate at another person's home, then be aware that this environment needs to be a safe one for the senior. For instance, remove accent rugs that could lead to a fall.

4. Be a good listener, take clues from them. Comment as appropriately as you can, as this can be a sensitive time.

5. Create new traditions. We all need something to look forward to. As our elders age, they may have lost old-time friends and dear family.
Family may be scattered, not able to come home at holiday time.

6. Encourage them to give. Increase their self worth by giving of themselves or providing gifts for others. Sharing their memories or cherished keepsakes with people close to them may provide a true joy.

7. Be thoughtful and include the senior. They are most likely lonely, which can lead to depression and resentment. They have many years of suggestions they will gladly pass on for others. Involve a senior center, religious place of worship or other senior venue to “reach out and touch another someone, someone who may not have family of their own”.

8. Find new modes of entertainment to stay active minded. Activities for the holiday season are important. Keep your senior cognitively busy. Beat the “Holiday blues” and “Depression.

9. Maintain a happy environment. Maintain brightness in these special festive days, despite the sense of loss they may have of loved ones who are no longer here to partake of the holiday with them.

10. Monitor medications and alcohol. Be aware of their alcohol intake during the holidays at gatherings or in the privacy of their own home. You don't want the alcohol to interfere with medications.

Give the gift a senior most wants! Time, companionship and visits from their friends and loved ones will be their most treasured gift. Seniors will typically relish the seasonal gatherings. This is the time to have patience, have compassion, and provide a safe and wonderful new memory, for them to reflect back on throughout the coming year.

Accent on Seniors, A FREE State Licensed Senior Living Referral Service, providing personalized information about senior living throughout California. Call 888-954-6637 to obtain a detailed listing of places for your loved ones and friend or go onto the website at www.AccentOnSeniors.com.

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Steve Strong has sinced written about articles on various topics from Home Management, Wireless Security Camera System and Home Management. Steve Strong's is an employee with Sun Security which is an innovative and growth oriented company who uses a fresh and new approach to meet the security needs of millions of consumers throughout North America. Sun Security supplies. Steve Strong's top article generates over 27100 views. to your Favourites.

Lori Solomon has sinced written about articles on various topics from Family Travel, Family Concerns and Home Management. Lori Solomon is President & Founder of Accent on Seniors, a CA State licensed FREE referral placement & info service. She has over 25 years of experience serving the senior community. With a Masters in Health Administration and CA Certification as a Resid. Lori Solomon's top article generates over 880 views. to your Favourites.