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[P497]Poem Don T Quit
by Bryan Benson, Bry
So many times, we run into rookies who are fed up with their regular 40 hr week job. After hearing all the stories of people getting rich with real estate, they are ready to throw in the towel on their regular job, tell their boss what they think of him, and jump full time into the business of buying and selling homes.

If you fall into this category, don’t do it.

Don’t do it, you say? That’s right. You better be very careful about giving up a job before you get checks coming in. You don't need to be full-time to do this business. In fact, I would venture to tell you, you won't make anymore money full-time than you do part-time. The added free time only gives you the opportunity to waste more time, and that is what most people end up doing.

Think about what it takes to buy houses. You get sellers to call you. That doesn't require much time. Whatever time it does require, whatever you can, you should job out somebody else so that you take a handful of calls. This is all it really takes to generate a few leads per month. The point is, it doesn't take a lot of time.

And then when you get the selling in, you should be using an autopilot system. Even if you only close one house a month, the money you make off of that one house can cause you to surpass all of your current coworkers to show up to your job!

So, how much time are we talking about here? Unfortunately, way too many people waste most of the time and they waste it the same way, everyday, day in and day out.

The changing of this mindset can be very challenging because we're responsible citizens that have been raised that you swap hours for dollars, and we tend to feel guilty when we don't. You take a look at all of the people that are making the most money in this business and you will quickly learn that the ones that are making the most, spend the least amount of time in the business but work on it.

Many students have learned this lesson quickly, some of them took a while. But they all learn it sooner or later if they are gonna make the big money.

The best thing to do is focus your energies in doing something to generate leads. Some people ride around and pile up a bunch of junkers and track down the owner and call em and get the information. You can call ads in the paper, and you can put out some signs.

The most valuable tool that I've ever run across is the yellow letter right on your FFN Website. That ugly, yellow handwritten letter… it is amazing the results that thing is getting for people all over America. Use it. You don't need to send out a pile of them, just some of them. You might send out several of those into an area where there are little to no homes for sale. You may only get one sale from it. But you may also find that the letter will hang around for a year or two and you'll get calls on that letter a year from now.

The first year in this business is gonna be the toughest. Get through the first year, quit listening to all the people trying to steal your dreams, don't be bothered by small problems, don't focus on them. Focus on getting them solved. This is business, this isn’t like your job, and you got no top cover. No one is above you making decisions for you and taking the hits for you. But that's how you get rich. And we have to learn something new to make more money.


I recently received an email from a friend who was
considering quitting her online business. She is
going through a stressful time, as we all do, and feels
her business is just not worth it anymore. If this sounds
familiar to you, then join the crowd! We are all human
and there are times when the everyday stress of life
just takes it's toll.

What you need to do when this happens is not to quit
your business, but to step back, give yourself some
breathing room and take care of what is causing the
excess stress. If you are having family problems, take
a break from your business and tend to your family.
When that problem is resolved you will be anxious to
get back to business.

Think long and hard before quitting.

There are times when I have felt the same way, but I
know that I would never want to quit my business.
Besides getting to work with so many wonderful people,
this business is now a part of me and my life. I am
sure that a lot of you feel the same way.

There are many things you can do to de-stress and be
ready to get back to business.

** Exercise is one of the best stress relievers there
is. Walking, aerobics, dancing, or whatever form of
exercise you choose has many more benefits also.

** One thing I do when business gets the better of me,
is to shut the computer down for the day and turn my
attention to other things that need to be done. Just
taking a small break from business can help. When
things are really stressful, we may need to take a
longer break.

** Another thing I do, is to take a few moments and
just reflect upon how lucky I really am. I have a home,
wonderful family, great job, my health and I also get
to live on this beautiful planet. I do not take
any of these things for granted for even one minute
because in a minute it could all be gone!!

** As you are taking those few moments to think about
what you do have instead of what you don't, you should
also be taking some nice, deep cleansing breaths.
And also stretch out some of those tired muscles.
I guarantee doing these things will revitalize and
refresh your mind and body.

** Take some time to think about why you started
your business and if those reasons still apply.
Are your goals still the same, do you still have
the motivation? If the other areas in your life
need more attention right now, that is fine, it
happens to all of us. Just do what you need to
do and then get back to business. Do not make the
decision to quit when you are stressed out or
trying to deal with other problems. Wait until you
can think clearly!

** Here are some sites that might give you some
more good ideas for de-stressing and life management.

http://www.stresscure.com/
http://www.stressrelease.com/strssbus.html
http://imt.net/~randolfi/StressLinks.html

Stress is a serious matter and should not be ignored.
But it can be controlled and reduced. Do not make
any life changing decisions when you are over-stressed.
Take a break, clear your mind, de-stress and things
will look a lot different!

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