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by Scott Patterson, Sco

Chances are, you're hesitant to believe that you can learn a lot about a girl in the first 3-5 minutes that you're around them. And chances are that you may lack the confidence needed to jump right out there and be expressive about yourself in that same short period. Enter the relatively new concept called "Speed Dating" --- breaking the ice at the speed of sound. By the way, it is not defined as the fastest way to meet a woman and take her home to bed. Here's a few tips on how to do it properly.

#1- Before you focus on a woman, focus on your appearance

Tat first impression of how you look to her can make or break the rest of the evening. In most instances, when a woman goes out she dresses attractively yet not too seductively. Mostly she wants to appear that she is looking for an enjoyable evening out. For gosh sakes guys, leave the jeans and that tee shirt advertising your favorite bar or baseball team in the drawer at home and break out the Dockers and a nice polo shirt. Besides that, looking better than the average Joe in the place helps you stand out from the crowd.

#2- Relax, put a smile on your face and watch the body language

It doesn't matter how self-confident you are, you're still going to have "butterflies" in your stomach. You're a liar if you deny this, unless your ego comes with it's own zip code. Then you're not a liar --- most likely, you're a jackass. Relax and smile. It helps things start much more smoothly and will lead to positive results. Secondly, watch that body language. Sit up straight, keep your hands visible, and occasionally use some hand gestures to emphasize a point you are trying to make.

#3- Don't booze it up before or during an encounter

Two of the key aspects with speed dating is the attention and wittiness factors. Too much alcohol not only dulls the senses, but hurts being able to maintain attentiveness and wit. Besides that, a woman in a social setting gets bombarded left and right with enough come-ons and stupid pick-up lines. You don't want to get branded as "Instant JACKASS! Just add alcohol."

#4- Focus on her and keep the conversation interesting

When you focus on her, it lets her know that she has your interest. Be careful what "parts" of her you focus on. Statistics prove that she receives the most encouraging feedback about you if you focus on her eyes 70% of the time, and her mouth and the surrounding features the other 30%. You want to stimulate conversation by asking more open-ended questions such as "If you had the chance to meet any one person in the entire world, who would it be?" These types of questions not only stimulate conversation as well as thinking, but it helps her realize that you care about her enough to ask her opinion on something that is more meaningful than "Where do you work?"

It happens to a majority of us that all of a sudden, we feel that our relationship with our partner has entered a rut. Far from feeling about our relationship the way we first did when we met each other, we often start questioning our relationship. In today's busy world, where making time for each other is extremely tough, relationships are bound to fall by the wayside if they are not nurtured continuously. If you feel your relationship has entered an unexciting patch, then analyze it closely and remember what attracted you to your partner. If the same things that left you happy and breathless at the beginning of your dating period still hold, but are now lost somewhere as you lead your separate lives, then picking up some dating secrets or a dating ebook from the internet can give it a new lease of life.

There are a number of relationship experts who are offering dating advice to men and women based upon years of experience in the form of dating ebooks that often cost a fraction of what a single hour long counseling session with these experts would cost a couple. By picking up an ebook, you not only manage to keep your personal relationship private but also get to know genuine, realistic solutions for solving the problems in your relationship.

Another advantage of picking up your dating secrets off a dating ebook is that dating couples generally do not go in for counseling. Only those who are seriously committed or married do. By getting advice about dating and reviving your relationship from an ebook instead of asking your partner to join you for counseling, you save yourself from putting a lot of unnecessary pressure on your partner, which can be detrimental to an already failing relationship.

Dating ebooks and membership sites that provide dating advice to women and men have become one of the most highly sold information products on the internet because couples all over the world are looking for a way of bringing back the “zing” into a relationship.

With relationship experts offering honest to goodness, workable solutions to get the romance back into your relationship, these dating ebooks have acted as life savers for millions of relationships all over the world.

One of the best ebooks providing dating advice for men on the internet today is The Quickstart Guide to Dating Women. The ebook provides simple solutions for getting romance back into a relationship like doing small things for your partner, being imaginative, looking good and being honest. At the same time, it also tackles serious relationship issues and provides solutions based upon male and female psychology and years of relationship research.

So if you want to know about basic dating secrets, how to bring back the romance into your relationship, get your ex back or find a new partner, then all you need to do is check out The Quickstart Guide to Dating Women and very soon, you will find yourself happily in love. The best part about the book is that it comes with a money back guarantee, so by buying a copy, you have nothing to lose but the “poor relationship” phase of your life.

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