1) Laugh and the World laughs with You
Having a great attitude is infectious and who doesn’t like being around upbeat people? Distribute good sentiments and get yourself into the right state of mind with panache. We can all do it. We just need to pick up the secrets. The up side? Being able to be flirtatious is innate; it’s about confidence and being able to sexily be in your body. The other key is understanding body language. We ladies may worry about how we communicate but in fact it's our bodies that engage in most of the talking. Communication is two thirds non-verbal. So watch what your body is saying. Researchers claim you can heighten your ability to attract guys by approximately 70 per cent if you work on your body talk.
7) Reveal Your Sensual Aura
If you’re chatting with a guy you like then mirror his body language and style of commuicating and they will sense you are in synch with them. Stand up straight and lean fractionally forward, turning your torso to face his more directly, and keep physical obstacles out of the way; be sure not to fold your arms like a citadel.
Critically, emanate the appearance of healthy vigour. Come accross as energetic, luminous even. Imagine you have just had an incredible romp and have a sexy aura around you.
8) Emulate Madonna
Confidence is probably the most attractive of all traits. Give yourself a pep talk before you go out and remind yourself you’re wonderful!.
If you need a little help in the confidence department, fake it until you get there for real. Find a role model you can emulate, think Madonna or Marylin Monroe. Imagine how that person would act, sense and walk. Think of what characteristics make her sexy and how she expresses these physically.
9) Listen Up Girls
The most underrated flirting takent is just listening. Men enjoy discussing themselves. They enjoy being the subject of conversation. Ask leading questions - that is, questions that require an involved answer. Tilt your face, look at him directly and nod as he chats - make him feel like the most fascinating and funny man alive.
10) Monitor His Signals
So…think you’ve met Mr Right? Wondering whether the stud you’ve had your eye on all night is also interested in you? It’s time to read the signs…
Wondering if he’s interested? Notice a few of these cues and you could well be on the money:
•Glances your way
•Turns his body towards you
•Adjusts his cuff
•Slight movement of his hips backward
•Leans your way
•Smiles whilst looking at you
•Adopts an open body posture
Ladies, get out there and put your new flirting and dating confidence to the test!
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