-A change in regular day to day activity. There are suddenly new people to see, new places to go, etc. All without you of course.

-A sudden change in appearance and grooming. Does he suddenly care about his health or is he trying to look good for a new lover?

-He starts buying more new clothing for himself.

Change in work habits. More business trips, more meetings, coming home late from work.

-Being secretive about certain things.

-He starts treating you differently in one way or another.

-Changes in finances. There are more withdrawals at ATMs and unexplained credit card charges. He is spending money romancing his new mistress.

-A change in mood, behavior, or personality.

When the phone rings, he doesn't want to take the call in front of you.

-More absences and of course there's always excuses for this increase in absence.

-A change in your sex life.

-He is secretive on the computer. If he's having a cyber affair he will try to hide it. History of sites visited will be deleted and if you walk in the room unexpectedly, he will suddenly close the browser.

-He spends more time on the computer than usual.

-He will accidentally slip up and let out something he didn't mean to then tries to rebound from his slip up with an excuse.

-He pays less attention to you than before.

If some of these signs are all too familiar to you, your husband could be cheating and you want to find out for sure. You need proof, because you deserve to know. You don't have to stay with a cheater, you deserve someone who will be faithful.

An infidelity investigator can help get proof for you that your husband is cheating. Your husbands email can be ran through a database to see if it's registered on any of the thousands of dating sites.

His cell phone can also be searched to recover all deleted text messages, pictures, and more. If your husband's mistress has been sending any text messages to your husband, you will be able to see them for yourself, even if they have been deleted.

Once you have proof, there are no more lies or excuses.

Copyright (c) 2009 Ed Opperman