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by Cory, Cor

The heartbreak and unspoken disappointment that goes hand in hand with infertility is something that most people will never understand. You are hesitant to even share with most people that you and your significant other are having this problem?not so much out of embarrassment but more because there really is nothing positive that someone might be able to say to you.

You are sick of hearing that you should relax and that once you stop trying you'll get pregnant. You don't want to hear about adoption or about someone's cousin who had the same problem. None of this helps or gives you hope. You spend time searching for an answer and every month you hope and pray with everything that you have that you could just get pregnant and have a child of your own. Your pain is only amplified by stories of abuse and neglect against children. You wonder why it is so easy for others to have children that they don't even want yet you desire nothing more than to love and care for a baby of your own.

As you explore your options you have probably been steered in the direction of fertility clinics and fertility specialist. Yes, these people deal with infertility every day they go to work and they can provide services that have worked for many. They might even be straight with you about your odds of conceiving using various methods that they have developed. The price tag may be steep but you honestly can't put a price on being a parent and you would give up every last penny you have to be a parent and have a child of your own.

You may have explored other options and read about holistic cures for infertility. Chinese Medicine is even becoming more and more popular even in the medical community. Fertility clinics are beginning to add acupuncture to their list of services to ?help? clients who are going through IVF, as a matter of fact.

Did you know that Chinese Medicine and other holistic and natural cures for infertility often work for couples that had no success with IVF and other procedures commonly offered by fertility clinics? You actually might have better success and save yourself a lot of time (and money) by taking a few months and trying some of these methods.

Chinese herbs are statistically proven to cure approximately 70% of the cases of infertility with some studies showing 50% success rates and other studies claiming 90% success rates. Methods will focus upon both you and your significant other and when you address other aspects of your lifestyle such as diet, exercise and stress the success rate is bound to go up. Yes, the biological clock is ticking but you might actually find better success from a natural and holistic cure for your infertility.

An attractive girl walks in the room and your jaw drops. You follow her as she strolls across to the bar. Then she suddenly turns around and looks in your direction. What do you do? Like most guys, you turn away pretending in utter fear. The famous "3 Minute Rule" states that you must approach a chick within the first 3 minutes of her or you entering a room. I don't necessarily agree with all of this, but I do agree with one aspect: making eye contact. Read on to see why eye contact is so important to this situation.

Because most guys are brainwashed by the 3-Minute Rule, they tend to rush into their approach, and as a result, don't have their GAME tight. They get up to a girl in a near sweat, and try to pull a line out of their back pocket as fast as they can. Many panic and say something that basically kills their shot at the girl. Or they are so focused on the timing that when they finally get their chance, they let it slip between their fingers because they don't know what to do next. The actual time limit may rush them, and make them think that the goal is getting there in time, rather than actually having a meaningful conversation.

The intentions of the 3-minute rule were good, because it forced you to get off your ass and do something about your desire. If you saw a hot girl enter the room, you probably would have waited the whole night before you approached her. And by that time you got enough courage to talk to her, another guy would have swooped in and taken your spot. But it had its flaws.

The most important aspect of the 3-Minute Rule that I definitely agree with is eye contact. Eye contact is the most powerful way in which you can communicate your interest in a girl from a distance. If you can make eye contact, and hold it, it tells the girl that you have confidence, high self esteem, and know what you want and will do what it takes to get it.

Here are 3 reasons why eye contact is so key:

1. Communicates interest in girl from a distance

2. Conveys confidence

3. Sets the stage for your approach

Now, don't get eye contact mixed up with a freakish stare-down. You might just scare her away if you do that. Instead, just casually look over, catch her eye momentarily, then get a knowing smile on your face that reveals that you like what you saw. Then turn away slowly and continue to do whatever it was you were doing.

More than 3 minutes have passed, and if you are following the 3 minute rule, your chances of nabbing the girl have just gone down the drain. But here is where I disagree with the rule. Making eye contact has already communicated your interest in her. If you executed correctly, she should have felt the confidence that you exude. So if even 15 minutes have passed, the lasting effect of the initial eye contact will still be with her, and it would be very appropriate for you to approach her.

But don't hesitate, as there is such a thing as waiting too long. Like the saying goes, "the early bird gets the worm." That holds true in this situation. If you see a girl, it is imperative that you send her the signals by making eye contact with her. After that, you have properly set yourself up to make the approach.

Sometimes it is even better to make a second or third eye contact. This really depends on the situation, though. If you are in a cozy bar, then multiple eye contacts before you approach the girl is appropriate. If you were in a larger venue, you might not see the girl again, especially if she hits the dance floor with her group of friends.

If you are going to go the way of multiple eye contacts, then you must progress with each incident. The initial eye contact may conclude with you flashing a small smile of acknowledgement. But then you need to up the ante for the subsequent contacts. Maybe nod slightly or give her a bigger smile. If she responds in a similar manner, then she's giving you the green light to go talk to her.

Now you know why eye contact is so important. It is the best way to communicate your interest from a distance, and conveys confidence in the process. After doing so, you are now set up to approach the girl. Now the rest is up to you!

Article Source : Pregnancy Week

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Jay Guthrie has sinced written about articles on various topics from Attracting Mate, Culture and Society and Social Issues. Jay is just an ordinary guy looking to be more attractive to women. On his journey, he came across all types of programs designed to "help him attract more women." Want to attract more women? Well, Jay has the answers. Jay has sorted through the junk a. Jay Guthrie's top article generates over 18100 views. to your Favourites.