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While there is definitely a message to be had here I doubt most guys that received the email ever got past the laughing, thinking "Man ... isn't that the truth?"
Oh, there's no denying that being "rich" will get you beautiful women. Note, I did not say that money would make a guy ATTRACTIVE to women.
ATTRACTION is not a logical choice women make. It is an emotional and a physical response. Women feel attraction. They do not reason their way to it.
A beautiful blonde, with an hour glass figure, walking hand-in-hand with a 300 pounder on a public beach is a calculated piece of logic on the part of the woman. She has learned to feel affection for the guy because of the advantages that the money brings.
And this is where all the guys miss the real message while laughing at the email. They're thinking "Women like that would be attracted to me if I had money." They are confusing ATTRACTION with AFFECTION.
Women will often feel affection for a guy: if he's nice, a close friend, helpful, considerate, innocent, etc. In fact, a woman can convince herself into feeling affection for just about any guy, because it is a "logical" response to the things I just mentioned. That's also why she feels affection for her puppy or cat.
There are three hurdles you must clear for a woman to feel ATTRACTED to you.
1) You must first separate yourself from the clumsy louts vying for her attention and trying to "nice" their way into her life. "Nice" will get you into the FRIENDS folder.
2) You must entertain her in some way so that she enjoys being with you and finds you interesting and/or intriguing.
3) You must be able to take it to the next level at the appropriate time which means you must plan you encounters paying special attention to the logistics.
You'll notice, nowhere is there a hurdle that says you must look like an Adonis or you must be wealthy.
Looking great and being wealthy certainly doesn't preclude women feeling ATTRACTION for you. I'm simply saying that you need "game" for the above hurdles regardless.
You can cause women to feel ATTRACTION for you by just understanding their screening processes and motivations and then cultivating certain personality styles. This is where the MACKnificent Strategies and Memorable MACKing come in.
You must become unforgettable. You must learn to give them the gift of missing you early in the relationship. And you must be in control of what is going on.
Once you're comfortable at meeting women, it will all become natural and 2nd nature to you. Your confidence will come through and you'll be developing your own MACKing strategies.