You were born into the world with an innocent mind, heart and a pure, unblemished, open spirit. You had no prejudice, no preconceived notions, no anger, fear, anxiety or stress. However, over the course of your life, the pressures of society and opinions of others clouded your vision, mind and of course - your spirit.
In today's world, happiness, serenity and peace are elusive gifts. Stress, anxiety, and increased rudeness in every area of the world are piled on all of us and weigh us down, suffocating us. We are bombarded with bad news by the media twenty-four hours a day about violence, crashing economies, stories of genocide and prejudice. Not to mention the ongoing threat of terrorism.
And to make things even more complex, on the battlefield of the human spirit, two "masters" constantly contend for the supremacy, authority and domination of your heart.
The first of which is the "Master of Self".
The other is "The Master of Truth".
The "Master of Self" is the rebellious one whose devices are rage, ego, greed, vanity, selfishness and the trappings of darkness.
The "Master of Truth" is the humble, patient and peaceful one whose devices are gentleness, purity, sacrifice, humility, love and instruments of light.
When you cling to and are ruled by the "Master of Self" you open yourself to unnecessary torment.
Here are some examples (that you may have experienced) when you are ruled by the "Master of Self":
1) You suffer disappointment because YOUR plans have been frustrated,
2) Someone has not lived up to YOUR expectations,
3) You regret YOUR behavior in public and private,
4) You are overwhelmed with regret because of the attitude or comments of someone toward YOU,
5) You are wounded on account of what has been done to YOU or said of YOU.
As you may have noticed, I purposely put the pronouns and adjectives in capital letters to reinforce how you cling to YOUR "self".
However, did you know that a world-wide study is now underway sponsored by National Geographic, IBM and others? This study has captured DNA data from volunteers, analyzed it and determined that all human beings, no matter where they live today, what their status in life is, or their color, race and religion, are descended from two individuals in the East Central area of Africa that lived only 60,000 years ago? (Just as a frame of reference, the Earth is 4.54 BILLION years old). They have been able, through scientific DNA analysis, to identify key genetic markers that show how the offspring of these two individuals, our ancestors, migrated across the planet.
The results show that we are all from the same "parents". Yet we continue to gravitate toward beliefs that are selfish and self centered instead of showing empathy and compassion to others.
What I am saying is for you to sacrifice your hatred, greed, prejudice, and opinions that bias the way you look at every day things and people around you. Begin looking at others with compassion, with love, and with respect. When you look at people in this manner you enter the pathway of truth, and find the peace from which the rest of the world is shut out. The absolute denial and extinction of self is the perfect state of truth.
However, how does one begin to find this state of truth? In a recent book, The Power of Serenity and Peace, the author shows you how to find happiness in today's stressed-out world. In today's world, happiness, serenity and peace are elusive gifts.
One of the effective exercises in the book shows you how to find the "Master of Truth". Of course, just doing the exercises does not make you a "master". The exercises will only begin to make you more aware and start you on the path to finding the Master of Truth within you. It will and can only grow within you through continuous practice, ongoing study and actually living it.
Here are the simple yet effective compassion and empathy exercises for you to try. The author also suggests that you to keep a brief journal, and write down what you experience and feel emotionally. Select one of the following exercises - "a" or "b".
a. Spend one day (yes, 24 hours) mute with no talking allowed. Only gesturing, writing on slips of paper, sign language (if you know it) is allowed. Journal your experience. How did people react to you? What did you learn from this?
b. Spend a full day experiencing a physical impairment. Tape a small, hard object (a ball bearing, small pebble — no bigger than the size of a pea) to the bottom of your foot on your heel area. Put on your sock and shoe. Wear this for the rest of the day. Journal your experience. (And no, this does not qualify you to park in the handicapped spot at the mall, the restaurant, or other).
The great Japanese samurai, Miyamoto Musashi said, "Practice a thousand hours and you learn self discipline. Practice ten thousand hours and you learn about yourself."
As you succeed in overcoming self you will begin to see things in their proper relationships. When you are absolutely free from all anger, prejudice, preference, and partiality, and have nothing to attack, defend, conceal, and no interests to guard, you will be at peace.
Copyright (c) 2008 Mind Body Spirit Central, LLC
Many someones live a life without love.They cannot love themselves, and so they cannot love anyone else. Some even sense that they do not merit love. The sad fact is that without love, no matter what else you have in life, it's not sufficient. We want to love ourselves categorically in order to live fully. The love I'm adverting to here is not romantic love Love here relates to self-sustaining, general love and regard for life - yours and everyone else's. We are all efficient of this type of love. In fact, if we can clean ourselves of all our terrible emotions, imprints and self-importance, what stays is pure, self-reliant love. That is who or what we are underneath all the layers of impurities that we have enlarged. The problem is that we have forgotten how to love. We have to determine to open our heart to love again. OPEN YOUR HEART TO LOVE There are four steps involved in beginning our heart to love: 1.Adoption 2.Pardon 3.Aspect 4.Activities ACCEPTANCE First, we have to have that we are confident of love - fine, independent, altruistic love! We have to accept the ask to express this form of love in our life in order to live full. Pardon Future, we have to learn to forgive - ourselves and everyone else, specially those whom have suffer us in the past. Learning to forgive is not a selection. It is a neccesity! We need to forgive in order to heal ourselves and make ourselves whole again. If we cannot forgive, we cannot move forward. We will continue to carry old injuries and effects with us. When we forgive, we let go of all these wounds and essences, and immediately feel lighter and stronger to move forward. Forgiving does not mean forgetting It ways we're willing to let go of the past and prepared to give ourselves the freedom to start afresh without encumbering ourselves with the old wounds. We retrieve the lessons without bitingly holding on to the pain. We do not wish to cursed anyone anymore. There are three types of forgiveness: 1.Forgiving those who have harm us 2.Forgiving ourselves for suffering others 3.Forgiving ourselves for hurting ourselves To ready our heart to love, we vital learn to love ourselves first. To do that, we require to start by forgiving ourselves for all our defects and faults. We want to stop charging ourselves. We stop blaming others and circumstances. It does not mean that we do not accept responsibility for our actions. What it does mean is that we make out our weaknesses and faults and wish to give ourselves another chance to make our life work out for us. TO ERR IS HUMAN, TO FORGIVE DIVINE Pardon is an expression of compassion. Our compassion should not be great to just other beings but also to ourselves. If we are not pity to ourselves, it is hard to show sure compassion to others. So forgive yourself! EXPRESSION Our life-time is an expression of all our psychological and excited imprints. All these imprints find construction outwardly in our life sooner or later. The sooner they are shown, the more liberating it feels. Bottled up inside, the positive impressions can acquire into something potentially more bad and malignant. We need to give these hard imprints a encounter to be carried so that we can release all the pent up energies we hold inside us - energies that can apparent physically as illnesses and emotionally as concern, angriness, defeat, guilt, doubtfulness and lack of self-pride. Here are some hints on ways to carry youself and translate tough, pent up energies into sure, liberating energies. 1.Journaling 2.Self-denying with sure friends and sustain groups 3.Professional Person direction or therapy ACTIONS Fulfilled here adverts to effective acts of loving-kindness in our lives. Like all habits, we need to incorporate this into our daily lives in order for it to become a part of us. Here are some practices to help give more feeling of loving-kindness towards all beings: EXERCISE 1.Loving-Kindness Meditation Establishing self-sustaining love demands cause at first. The Buddhists Metta Meditation is a good meditation to help yield self-sustaining love towards all beingness. 2.Obviating Prejudices World-wide love is unconditional and without any bias or prejudice. If you have a certain prejudice towards positive people or race, try to make an supplemental effort to love them unconditionally. For example, if you are biased against Muslims in general, make an extra effort to seek out Muslim orphanages or old folks homes to give gifts during a New Year festivity or a special occasion. 3.Perform an Unlimited Act of Love Daily There are many things you can do daily to express your unconditional love. For example, we often do not find out the mailman, or the garbage collector. In the office, we oftentimes do not notice the tea lady and upkeep staff. Do you know who sweeps your place daily? Make an cause to know these people as a person.
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