So you have already broken up with your ex, and now you are thinking of contacting her. Do you know that there is a right and wrong way to do so?
First, you will have to look at how long you have already broken up with your girlfriend. If you have just broken up with her for only a few days, this is not the time to call her. Calling her can create more problems for you.
Why is that so?
Well, when you just break up with your girlfriend, most likely, you wont be emotionally well and is not quite straight in your head. And even if she is the one who suggested the break up, she may not be feeling too good too. Therefore, you want to allow both of you time to cool down.
Allow at least one month before you start contacting her. If possible, dont meet her during this period. You may also want to remove anything in your room that will remind you of her. Of course, you dont have to throw them away.
Just pack all of them into a box or a cupboard where you will not see them. If you have no choice but to see her everyday because both of you are colleagues, you dont want to ignore her totally. You should at least smile and say hi.
For those who have already broken up for more than one month and would like to get your ex back, it is important that you do so strategically.
You dont want to show any sign of desperation. For example, if it happens that she did not answer your call, you dont want to call her again on the same day. Most importantly, you dont want to call her several times in a row, hoping that she will answer your phone call.
Instead, what you will want to do is to wait for a few more days before you start contacting her again. Be more patient and it will gives you a higher chance to get your ex back.
Another reason why you do not want to call your ex too often too soon is because you dont want to antagonize her too much. If she becomes frustrated, she may just decide to cut off all contacts from you. This will make it more difficult for you to get her back. Certainly, you do not want this situation to happen to you.
Here is a list of the most common overlooked pitfalls you and other writers commit.
1. Remember you are writing articles, content-rich, informative and useful articles, NOT SOLO ADS. Writing an obvious advert is a major turn-off for most publishers. How will you know if you are writing an advert? If your article lacks useful information, sounds like a sales pitch when you read them aloud and you inserted your link outside of the resource box, midway through the article that means your article is a blatant ADVERT. Do not even imagine your article being published to any of the publication and newsletter.
2. If website links outside of the resource boxes are a general-no-no to publishers, what more other links that of your affiliates. Be sure that your article is free of any website links, except for minor instances that it is needed to give additional information, but the rest should weblink free article.
3. Incorrect spellings and other grammatical errors are eye sores to publishers and readers. Do not let this happen, as you would be negatively branded and would be considered as not someone to be trusted. If spelling checks are needed by all means do it.
4. Resource boxes are spaces for basic information about you, your business and contact details including your website link. Do not put over-hyped promotional words, sentences on your resource box. This may become a turning point for publishers who decided not to take your article instead but well in fact impressed by the first and middle parts of your article.
If these have been your ways before, better stop, think, reflect and act on it so you can make use better of your writing ability and knowledge.
Now, how to act on it? Aside from avoiding the common pitfalls discussed above, some suggestions for each aspect of your article should be taken into your consideration when starting to write.
? TOPIC. To help you choose the best topic for your article, brainstorming is necessary. Try scanning through discussion forums and egroups that is basically within your market reach and has something in common with your website. Take active part in the discussions and get ideas for hot topics. Observe the members interests, styles, culture and likes. You may get some important ideas which may be used for bullet points.
? TITLE. Title is a very important element in an article and the success or failure of your article is highly dependent on your title. Formulate a tantalizing and attention grabber title.
? INTRODUCTION. Absorbing, compelling, powerful and an easily understandable introduction is an excellent way to make your readers eyes constantly glued in your articles until the end.
? CONTENT. As the saying goes content is King You may have the most catchy title every composed or a capturing introduction but if your content is lousy, your readers will stop reading your piece and click away. So do not waste opportunities to hook your readers, make all aspect of your article work for you.
? KEYWORDS. Keywords are the main generators of traffic to your sites. If you have established strong keywords in your article, this will improve your search engine ranking, increasing the volume of your visitors. Be sure to insert the keywords in your articles in strategic locations ? title, introductory and closing paragraphs and distributed evenly in the body of the article.
? RESOURCE BOX. This is the lifeblood of your article since it connects you to your readers. A well composed material, free of promotional languages resource box is also one of the important decisive factors for publishers whether to publish your article or not. Your resource box must contain only basic information about you, your business and contact details with URL.
? ARTICLE SUBMISSION. One thing important in submitting your articles is the submission rules of the publishers. Since you will benefit from getting your articles published better follow his rules. Rules change for every publication, thus, reading their guidelines is very important. Article banks, online directories and ezines accept submitted articles.
With all the reminders, common pitfalls and suggestions called to your attention by this article, these are enough points to guide you to your writing profession in the web.
Both Ben Needles & Vandanabindu are contributors for EditorialToday. The above articles have been edited for relevancy and timeliness. All write-ups, reviews, tips and guides published by EditorialToday.com and its partners or affiliates are for informational purposes only. They should not be used for any legal or any other type of advice. We do not endorse any author, contributor, writer or article posted by our team.
Ben Needles has sinced written about articles on various topics from Business Credit Cards, Anger Control and Business Credit Cards. About the Author (text)Most relationships can be saved no matter how bad the situation is. . Ben Needles's top article generates over 550000 views. to your Favourites.
Vandanabindu has sinced written about articles on various topics from How to Sell on Ebay, E Books and The Internet. For more useful tips & hints, please browse for more information at our website: - . Vandanabindu's top article generates over 2400 views. to your Favourites.