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[S137]Scents That Attract Men

by Sean Tan, Sea

Relationships have come a long way from being simple basic where the man was the one who made the first step and woman played the coy one. With the tizzy changes in attitudes and lifestyles, the bad news is that there is no single common, time tried and tested answer to the question "how to get attract only princes ". But the good news is that there are several answers to the question, and you can choose the answer that best suits your lifestyle and psychology. To put it more simply, men are like snowflakes; no two men are the same, and therefore it goes without saying that the ways to attract them are different too. However, there are some basic aspects that one has to remember while trying to first impression.

Tip # 1: Don't Make Them Try Too Hard

The days of chivalry are long gone. Try to be too unattainable and the men may just ignore you first and then completely forget you. This is the twenty-first century, the age of equal opportunities. And now comes the reason that there is no set answer to the question, how to get a boyfriends? There are still some men and women who like to go the old fashioned way, from courting to dating to proposing and finally to living together. It is a well-known fact that a relation is made of two people, and someone somewhere is made for you. Therefore, what turns on one man may not, and that may be the beginning of the end for many relations.

Tip # 2: Be Yourself

Though this may sound clinch, it is one of the greatest truths in love and relationships. Being your own self all the time solves a lot of problems for both the people in the relation. And then, there is only one you, the exciting, sensual, mysterious you. Why would you want to spoil it for him by being someone else whom he or the entire world knows very well?

Tip # 3: Dedication and Loyalty

These are possibly the strongest pillars of any relation, and not just the relation of love. A man, by birth and by psyche is the more adventurous of the genders, and opposites always attract. Therefore, even the most macho of men would like to come home to a homely and cheerful wife, of whom he is sure that she has nothing dangerous in past, or would she leave him all of a sudden for the next best thing on the horizon.

To many women, attraction is a mysterious thing. Mistakenly, many women believe that attraction is completely based on looks or physical attributes. What they do not realize is that a big part of what attracts men and keeps them thinking about a woman is how you can mix the serious with the fun and do it in an unpredictable way. Being unpredictable in a fun way with a man is pure magic. But when it's coupled with something serious, it's a sure recipe for attraction and creating mystery that makes him want to stay - as either a date or a boyfriend.

This seemingly duplicitous nature does several things for a man. First, it makes YOU stick out in his mind. You are not another boring but pretty face if you can keep him on his toes and trying to guess what you are going to do next. Second - it creates attraction for him - especially if you can keep a fairly aloof position, exhibiting to him that you don't need him and that you are not there at his beck and call. It shows him that you are a challenge, and men love that.

For example, let's say you're in a bar or in a restaurant and you're talking with a man who you are attracted to. If you want to be like most women, then you'll ask him some common questions about himself, his career, his life, his family, etc… and he will start wondering who won last night's game. This is way too predictable and only works in a few lucky situations or if you're some supermodel who makes men's brains shut off just by looking at them. And yeah, while you could get to know a guy talking about this stuff, you'll see that he's got his eye on some woman across the room who's laughing, having a great time, and is obviously fun and exciting to be around.

Predictability is the antithesis of interesting. If you are always predictable, then by definition you're not interesting. So keep doing things that are interesting and unexpected. Talking about this “regular” stuff, while it has some value in getting to know some details about a man's life and history, can be an attraction killer when you do too much of it.

So what to do instead? Try playing with him a bit. Make up answers to his questions that are obviously not true, like saying that you are actually sent here to measure the intelligence of the life forms at the bar by NASA. Tell him you slipped him a Mickey in his beer and you will answer his questions only after it has taken effect and he is sure to remember nothing. Tell him you are a hypnotist and now he will start barking like a dog whenever someone says the word "tree". The point is to keep the conversation fun and keep him guessing as to what you are going to do next.

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