Everyone (at some point) in their life is going to get a speeding ticket. You just need to make sure to take the time now to learn how to immediately get out of the speeding ticket.
Today, with all the different technology that police officers are using, it is becoming almost impossible to not get caught and get that speeding ticket. Police officers are literally hiding behind corners with laser/radar and tag teaming multiple cars at once.
To get out of a speeding ticket, there are two scenarios:
1.You get out of the speeding ticket right when it is being given to you (example/ coming up with the perfect excuse as to why you were speeding, apologizing and getting away with a warning).
2.You go to court and get the speeding ticket taken off.
To be honest, the easier and safer bet is #1. If you end up going to court for the speeding ticket, you are more than likely to walk away having to pay SOMETHING. However, even if you do have to go to court, there are still strategies you can use to get away with the speeding ticket.
First of all, if a police officer pulls you over for speeding, you need to have an entire story that checks out ready to go. If you are going to use someone else in your story, they need to know before-hand that they may one day get a phone call from an officer to check on a story.
Second of all, do NOT be a smart ass ? you need to be very polite and look shocked. Sincerity is going to be the main thing here.
Third of all, ASK for the warning instead of ticket. Show a bit of panic and say that you really cannot afford the ticket and that you will be very careful from then on. Sometime, just asking for the warning can make all the difference ? it certainly cannot hurt!
Now, if you're caught in position #2 ? the best bet is to try to get your court date changed. This means, whatever date they send you ? send a reason back why you cannot make it and ask for a change. Many times police officers will not show up to court if they only have 1 or 2 cases ? if that happens, you are HOME FREE.
To learn more in-depth strategies, I highly recommend reading ?Beat My Speeding Ticket?
Last Thursday was a day from h-e-l-l. No, it was worse than that.
First google took my site and pushed it down, down, down on a number of keywords. Bottom line: I lost almost half of new visitors to my site. Another bottom line: my stomach started to turn and I could feel the fear and anger swirling in my chest. I've worked so hard building this site and a blankety blank computer swarming robot throws it away!
And, get this... I was taking my daughter home the same day (she's married with family and helps me with break free) and I got a speeding ticket. My first in more than a decade.
I called my long-time, buddy, colleague, soul-mate, friend and confidant, Jeryl (Swantack), and she was delighted. No kidding!
She said, "Robert, you are going too fast!"
"No lie, I got a ticket," I replied.
"That's not exactly what I meant, she said. You hear this voice within that urges you to step back, clear your mind of extraneous cobwebs and point in the direction that best fits YOU. Chill. It's time for a break."
You know what?
She was right.
Looking back over the past few months, I've focused on tasks that did not give pleasure, that did not fit who I am, what I'm great at.
I've been spinning my wheels - moving fast but going nowhere.
I've lost my direction. I've lost me. I've lost my connection to that which wants the best for me.
And I thought...
Losing my connection is precisely what others experience at their core when their life is racked with infidelity and betrayal.
You've lost your self, your direction. You've given all to him/her, what s/he is doing or not doing.
Your life (or lack of it) focuses on what is missing, what isn't there, what you're not getting.
And as you do that, you become more and more frantic. You move faster and faster, trying to wring from him/her something that s/he can't or won't give.
And, when you don't get what you really want, you only try harder, flailing with impulsively derived strategies that are an attempt to allieviate the pain of losing him/her and/or your hopes - all focused externally to you.
The pain accelerates. You think faster. You feel deeper. But it's all negative emotions, thoughts and images.
So, I took a couple days off and thought about what I REALLY want.
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