When you are in a bad mood or stressed out about office work, or you feel trapped or object of gossip or whatever, he needs to be there for you, make you confident and relaxed or just listen to you.
2. To be attentive at you and everything related to you
He is supposed to listen to you irrespective of what you say, not to forget about your anniversaries, care about your problems and offer his help. He also needs to know your schedule and organize his so you go places together when there is spare time.
3. Your friends must like him
You love him but love is not always related to objectivity, and your friends that like you are the best critics that you have. The fact they find him to be Ok is a good sign, he is your chosen one.
4. His promises must be kept
When he promises you he will call you, this must happen. You don't like people who forget about their promises; in fact such people are not reliable.
5. To be loyal
If he cheats on you, he is not the one that you need. He needs to be with you and your future kids not with other women that tempt him. If your lover has these qualities, a good idea would be marriage as soon as possible; otherwise another woman may discover that he is perfect for her.