I was completely shocked when I heard one woman talking to the other that she gave up her work in order to take care of your husband. Of course, I stand for the opinion that women should help her husband, but he, in his turn, should not be deprived of housekeeping duties.
In this connection, it is rather evident that every woman should not depend on her husband fully. Even in very strong marriages, there can be such situations when a woman needs her own earning. I do not think that it is rather convenient for any woman to ask her husband about money. So, if you do not want to be dependant, you would better start your own business, in order to have some additional source of income, apart from husband.
Thus, there is nothing to be added. All you should remember is that whether you want to ask money all the time (even for your hygienic belongings). What if you are in quarrel and your husband will not feel like giving your some money, what will you do then?
All in all, you are to choose, what will be better for you.