so you've taken the plunge and set up a profile online... If youhaven't, what are you waiting for?

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What now? Sit back and wait for the messages to flow in, or go looking, thechoice is yours.

Whatever you choose to do, here are a few practical guidelines tothink about.

Flirting and is no different to doing it off-line, just a lotsafer and easier if you do it right. Most of the 'rules' are common sense. Yourmother was most probably right - you just don't have to admit it.

Create the RightImpression
Make sure your profile is not misleading. Give the wrong idea and you'll besure to get the wrong response or no responses at all.

Think about What You Say
when contacting another member for the first time or responding to a message,think about it. As tempting as it may be to walk up to a stranger at a partyand place a hand on their sexy butt, chances are you wouldn't. So don't do itonline, unless of course there is a large sign that says 'Touch Me!'

Personal Details
the greatest thing about being online is the safety and privacy it affords you.Just be careful! When you start corresponding with people don't give out yourpersonal details too early. Build up a sense of mutual trust first. Keep yourlast name, telephone number, email address, place of work and exact familydetails private until you are ready to share them.

Don't be Pushed
Watch out for people pressing you for your personal details too early and toooften. Also, hang back on meeting off-line until you are ready.

Inconsistencies
keep an eye out for changes in content and style in the messages you receive.If Mr. Loving Kindness suddenly starts sounding like Carlos the Jackal ontestosterone it may be an idea to back off or move on.

Meeting Off-Line
this is the big one! You mailed each other, chatted and are ready to take theplunge and meet for real. Whilst taking your brother from the commandos withyou may ensure your safety, chances are your date may get nervous, or preferhim to you!

Make your first few meetings in public places, ideally at lunchtime if you can.If you have a mobile phone, take it with you and possibly take a pre-arrangedcall. Tell someone where you are going and try to have plans for after yourdate - don't be caught out with "so what are you doing after dinner?? Haveyour answer ready. Don't give out your home or work address and don't give into pressure.

And guys, all this applies to you too. The chances of being taken for a ride bywomen may be less, but don't discount it.

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