Anything worth doing takes discipline. You need it to reach goals. You need it to lose weight. If you want to be a millionaire, then it takes discipline. Then why don't you think people use more self-control in their relationships? Is it because people think they should be loved for who they are?

That sounds so romantic. To bad girls don't like you for who you are, they only like you for what they think they can make you. The modern woman is a ruthless and demanding monster. They expect a lot more from their partners nowadays.

It's too bad that you can't just be yourself and get girls to like you. It sure would be nice. I don't think there would be as many divorces or marriage problems. You wouldn't have to look for information on how to get women to like you.

If you spend hours searching for methods to seduce and capture the hearts of beautiful women then it all goes to waste if you don't follow it exactly. To be a player is simple, but not easy.

An interesting thing about men that finally start getting the girls they wanted, is that they realize they always knew how to do it deep down inside.

My first girlfriend was crazy about me. She thought I was everything that she ever dreamed of. Part of this was because she didn't completely know me, and some of it was because I was following the rules, even though I didn't know I was. At first I only called her once or twice a week. This wasn't because I was being disciplined, it was because I was nervous. So I saw her once a week, and she wanted to hang out all the time.

Eventually I started to like more and more until I started to call her every day. Then, I wanted to hang out everyday. During this time, I didn't kiss her because she was my first kiss. The benefit of this is that she thought of it as challenge at first. Challenge is one of the keys of having a successful relationship.

Eventually, she found out that I wanted her like crazy, but I still didn't kiss her. This was the begining of the end for me. But what really messed it up was when I asked her to come over everyday, and if she didn't I got mad. You should do the exact opposite. She should want to hang out everyday, and you should get a little mad if if she takes it to far. It doesn't matter if you really want to hang out with her all the time, you still need to resist the temptation. You need to be like a duck in a pond, calm and cool on the outside, but under the water, your feet are moving a mile a minute. It takes a lot of discipline, and at times you will seriously doubt if this even works, but it does, and if you don't use it, you'll find out the same way I did.