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Absurd, you say?Why would you not want to be successful? There are benefits of keeping things the way they are . . . of NOT changing.
What we want can also be what we fear.
For instance, if you lose weight, are you afraid that: . . . you will only gain it back, so why try?. . . or that others will make remarks, you will get unwanted attention?. . . or that you won't ever be able to eat your favorite foods again?. . . or that others will be jealous or resentful?. . . or that you'll have to be perfect from that moment on?. . . or that others will expect more of you?. . . or that you'll be different from your friends and family'If this idea still seems far-fetched, consider how easy it is to sabotage yourself in other areas of life.
How many of these statements can you identify with?
1. I have read a lot of self-help books, but nothing seems to change . . .
2. I am in a job that doesn't allow me to use my full talents or abilities . . .
3. I try to be all things to all people . . .
4. I am forgiving of others, but I can't accept any less than the best from myself . . .
5. I feel guilty about saying "no" . . .
6. I find it impossible to ask for help . . .
7. I have a low opinion of myself, even though others speak highly of me . . .
8. I am afraid to ask for a raise or charge more for my services . . .
9. I often feel that I'm not doing enough, even though I am exhausted at the end of each day . . .
10. I want to succeed, but never seem to have the patience to follow through . .
Have you given yourself full permission to succeed? And are you ready to have success and any changes it may bring into your life?Take a look at your fears and KNOW that you will be able to handle any consequences that come as a result of your success.
Have it be ok-and you are paving your own road to freedom. Trust yourself to be able to handle what comes. You can.