Dont Fear Failure

Listen to the council of successful people from their own mouths:

"Failure is the opportunity to begin again more intelligently." - Henry Ford

"When one door closes another door opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us." - Alexander Graham Bell

"It is not failure itself that holds you back; it is the fear of failure that paralyzes you." - Brian Tracy

I think Brian Tracy puts it the best..."It is not failure itself that holds you back; it is the fear of failure that paralyzes you." So true! How often has this happened to you? You have a big decision to make but you are paralyzed.

All you can think about is what will happen if you fail. I think we all face the fear of failure to some degree. But successful people have learned to manage their fears - to talk to themselves instead of listening to their fears. And when they do fail at something, which is inevitable, they pick themselves up, learn their lesson, and begin again. How can you stop fearing failure?

1. Don't think too highly of yourself - I think this would be the main thing to help you stop fearing failure. When you have an elevated view of your importance, you will be more afraid of what people will think of you if you fail.

2. Learn to laugh at yourself - when you do fail, which is inevitable, laugh at yourself! Nothing will drive your fear away faster than being quick to acknowledge your mistakes with a laugh.

3. Take calculated risks - this means don't jump before you look. You will have more confidence in your decisions and less reason to fear failure when you research thoroughly before jumping into a relationship, business, or job.

When you do fail, always analyze your failure so that you can avoid making the same mistake again. Remember what Henry Ford said, "Failure is the opportunity to begin again more intelligently."