by : Laura Hickey

Now I'm not saying go screw over someone that for the most part has been there for you and then made a few mistakes. They are decent people, but for the ones that aren't, don't waste your time going after them. Instead take those emotions of sadness or bloody anger and add them to your fight. Everytime someone tries to ruffle your feathers, have it add more fire to the inner flames in you. The more fire you have in yourself, the more likely you will get out there and work twice as hard. You'll have a thicker skin and you'll be completely focus on shutting that person down by getting ahead. Now, again that doesn't mean go beating that person to a bloody pulp (you may want to, that's definitely understandable) but if there's a promotion at work or in life that you want to get ahead, work harder with all the raging fire from these emotions these people caused you to get ahead and be successful.

It's going to be hard at first. Many times you'll want to say something or crush someone for being such a...well you know! But with time you'll slowly see that biting your tongue and not saying something will end up you being the bigger man or women! If you feel upset try venting in a blog/diary. You can have it private or public online. Change doesn't happen overnight. Good Luck!