1.When will I find you once again? You'll see him when you see him. If he wants to see you again, he'll call. If not, next. You don't have time for anyone that doesn't have time for you.



2.Why didn't you call? There's only one response to this question: Because he didn't wish to!!! What you're really asking is, "Why didn't you want to call me?" Who knows!! There could be a lot of reasons, but you shouldn't be set around questioning why. You should be out dating lots of different guys and not troubling about ONE guy.

3.Where were you? If he preferred you to know where he was, he'd tell you. What you're really inquiring is, "Where you with different female that you like better than me?" Your insecurity is presenting, sweetie. If anything, he should be wondering where you were.

4.I love you. You're stating it in the trusts that he'll say it back, but what if he doesn't? You'll be wasted and probably feel dim. Saying "I love you" is not going to accelerate things up if he's not prepared to say it back. So just chill it, and let him be the first to say it when he's ready.

5.Did you sleep with her? As long as he's not sleeping with her now, who concerns? The past is gone. Don't torture yourself (and him) with these ideas. In this instance, ignorance truly is blissfulness.

6.Are you considering anyone else? Mystery is to men what flirt is to women. You've just indirectly told him that you want to be selective, you've handed over control of the relationship and you've shot down the secret. Who recognized 5 words could be so important?

7.Where is this lasting? Nowhere fast if that's your mental attitude. Guys want someone sport and easy to be with, not someone that's constantly concerning about the upcoming. His actions or non-actions will tell you where it's going. If it's going somewhere, you'll know it. If it's not, you'll know it too.

8.We ask to talk. This is the equivalent of, "Go to the principal's office". Guys know it's not going to be a fun conversation, so they're already on the defense. If you need to discuss something, just casually bring it up when the both of you are decompressed. Don't try to talk to him when he's wore, suffering or trying to watch tv!

9.What are you guessing? What you're really asking is: Is something wrong? Are you wild at me? Are you thinking about our relationship? Are you thinking about me? Are you thinking about someone else? If he wants you to know what he's thinking, he'll tell you on his own. If he doesn't, he'll lie when you ask.

10.I don't trust you. What you're actually saying is, "You need to step up your game, because I can see you're up to something." If he is up to something, he'll just become even sneakier. Better to suppose natural and act dumb-it'll be easier to get the evidence you need to affirm your suspiciousnesses.