Being single again all of a sudden without really having planned on going that way can really suck, to be blunt. If this is the case for you, and you're not quite ready to give up on your relationship with your new ex, then I have some info you may be interested in. There are plenty of great ways to pique your ex's interest in you again, and I'm going to give you 3 of them!



1) One thing you'd probably have guessed is a great way to get your ex interested again is to not let this relationship affect your general hygiene. A lot of people let things go south when they're depressed from a breakup, but if you want to spark things up again, you need to kick things into gear and look your best!

This is a good thing in two ways. One, it's obviously great to look good...and two, it'll likely start getting you some attention from the opposite sex other than your ex. You don't have to really do anything with anyone else, but if your ex sees you as the object of a lot of interest it's almost unavoidable that it'll pique your ex's interest as well. Jealousy is a GREAT motivator!

2) Another fantastic way to impress your ex is to stay on the public scene. Keep up and at it, doing stuff with your friends and living life, rather than just letting a breakup destroy you. A lot of people get really depressed after a breakup, and there's nothing wrong with that...but there IS a lot wrong with letting it rule you.

Stage 2 - Rebuild Contact: Figuring out and fixing all the problems you're responsible for in the relationship can take a while, so most of the time once that's all taken care of or at least well-started, enough time has passed so that you can contact your ex again. Keep this first one light and nonaggressive...a phone call or email is good, and get no more personal than "how have you been?" "Nonthreatening" is the word here.

If that went without conflict, it's probably all good to go ahead and slowly build contact back up with the odd phone call or email here and again. Don't push things too quickly, or you'll drive your ex away, but take things slowly and you'll probably end up spending some decent time together. Use the times you're with each other to passively remind your ex of how great the two of you used to fit, by doing things the both of you always enjoyed as a couple. The memories combined with the new and improved you should really soften up your ex to the idea of reuniting and possibly even make it be his/her idea.

I know that's a tough thing to tell you, and Rome wasn't built in a day...but if you're really serious about getting your ex back you need to invest some time and effort in this. Believe me, I know how difficult this sort of thing is...but it is far from impossible. If you can put in the dedication and accomplish this, your ex will see it and really start to wonder if perhaps leaving you wasn't a little premature. This is how second chances are made, not through begging but through working to fix the problem.

Getting your ex back isn't impossible...it can seem pretty hard sometimes, but with the right motivation, determination, and an idea of where to begin, it can work out pretty well. With a little work, you can impress your ex and get him/her back with relative ease.