First dates are all about getting to know someone but, as we all know, they are also famous for butterflies. Will everything go well? Will we have fun? If you want to know the answer to either of these questions, take a moment and think about the following ways to make your first meeting as memorable as possible.



Think creatively. Come up with a non-standard idea for a first date, that alone will often leave an impression and make *this* date special and different from others. If your date loves music, instead of going to a concert consider going on a date in the park with a picnic basket, some CDs and a portable player (with speakers). If your date is a film fanatic, avoid a crowded theater and opt for a projector and find the perfect place to host your own private showing of a comedy movie thats sure to bring a smile to your dates face. By thinking outside the box, you will show your date that you have put a bit of thought into the evening.

Dress casual. Most people arent comfortable at a black tie event, so avoid making it your first date with someone new. Instead, remain casual and keep the atmosphere relaxed so that you can enjoy getting to know one another. A formal environment will only result in the both of you being a little-bit more on-guard for the evening, and there's enough of that on first dates to begin with.

Talk to your Date. The general purpose of a "first" date is to get to know the person you're going on the date with. Will there be a second date? Are there any sparks to make another date worthwhile? The only way to know for sure is to learn about the person and whether he/she is someone that you would enjoy spending time with again. This is why going to the movies is not necessarily not a great idea for first dates unless you have something else planned too.

Have fun. This rule not only applies for a first date, but is also the goal for all that follow and is essential to make your time spent together memorable. Don't be afraid to show your sense of humor or take in a movie that is sure to keep the two of you laughing. Couples that laugh together often stay together, so it should go without saying that the more fun you have together, the better the prospects for a second date.

The kiss. No matter what your age, the stress of concluding the evening is always present. The trick to a memorable first date is to leave some mystery, which your potential mate will want to solve with another date. A sweet kiss on the cheek will show that you had a nice time, but will not seem overly pushy. In addition, it will leave your date with anticipation for a future meeting.