The wedding photographer caught all of that and preserved it for future generations to see.



Now it's time to trash the dress.

Brides everywhere are catching onto this liberating new trend of dirtying their gowns after the big day. Consider it a memorable bit of closure to perform the activities you couldn't do on your wedding day, whether that's diving in a pool or walking in the rain - puddles welcome.

Bonus: Your wedding photographer gets down and dirty with you.

Whatever you had to compromise in planning your wedding, you don't have to here. This is all about what you want, not your parents or in-laws. The pressure is off.

For an extra dose of fun, invite a girlfriend to join. Have her bring her own gown or a much-hated bridesmaid dress. Recruit another friend to shoot video to document the day.

Here are some settings that will help your wedding photographer produce new and extraordinary memories:

- A muddy lake, bayou or swamp. (Do take the proper safety precautions; we don't recommend swimming with alligators.)

- The beach. Ironically, this is where couples like to go for their engagement photos, too.

- A gym or track. Shoot hoops or run a lap.

- Anywhere with paint. Need we say more?

And now, a few practical points:

- Bring your veil. The photos will look more realistic.

- When wet, a gauzy, lightweight material like organza may produce a peek-a-boo effect. Plan accordingly.

- If the dress was already difficult to move or sit in, it may rip during the shoot. (Of course, this could be an outcome you desire!)

- Be prepared for onlookers, especially if you're doing it at a very public beach or park. Have an explanation ready. Repeat often.

- Take your time getting really dirty. Once you've trashed your dress, the wedding photographer can't go back for missed shots.

- Shower right afterward. You don't know what was in that murky water.

Most important? Relax and have fun.