In any relationship things change after some time,



it is not all as beautiful as it was from the

beginning. Appear a lot of problems,

misunderstandings and also many argue. Even if

you love your partner very much, if you are

arguing every day, after a while you are enough

of all this and you may find the consolation you

need in other part.

What happen if in some day you are very upset

because you and your girlfriend were arguing

again, so you decided to go in a club with your

friends at a beer to calm down a little? But

there she is: your girlfriend's best friend, a

beautiful, sexy and available lady which sees you

and get in talk with you.

You are talking with her about your girlfriend

and how hard it is to understand with her in the

last days, that you are not getting along anymore,

that's why she upsets you every day. You are

enough of all of this, and you need someone who

understands you, love you as the way you are. She

understands you and offers her help to get throw

this.

She was flirting with you until the day you met

her, but now it was her chance to get you.

Because she is very beautiful you couldn't resist

to her, and you spend that night with her,

because she offered you the understanding you

needed. You slept with her, but what's next?

You still love your partner and don't want to

lose her. But the problem is that you don't know

how to act in front of your girlfriend to not

find out. It is true that you were drunk but this

is not a great excuse to forgive you if she finds

out. You just slept with her best friend; you

really think that she will forgive you? I don't

think so. So you've better speak with her friend

and tell her that this was just an affair and it

is all over now and she must keep the secret.

But what happens if she still uses all her

seductive powers on you anytime she has the

opportunity and tells you that she loves you from

the day she saw you. She agrees with you that she

wouldn't tell to your girlfriend about you two if

you still accept to meet with her too. Let's say

that you accept this, because you are too weak to

end your relationship.

Here are some safety tips to follow if you want

that your girlfriend to not find out about this:

don't permit to your new friend to call you on

your cell phone, you may buy a new number just

known by her, don't tell at any friend of you

about your affair, use always condoms to not have

a bad surprise, and if your girlfriend has a

suspicion about this, deny.

But you shouldn't play with fire. You love your

actual girlfriend but the other is much

attractive and sensual. You better think which

you like most and make a choice. If you choose to

keep your actual relationship, the best thing you

can do is to try to not spend much time in the

presence of the other, and definitely not stay

alone with her somewhere. It may get worse.

Also, you know your girlfriend's best friend very

well and it is common to discover that you and

her have a lot in common as well, and the more

time you spend together, the more attractive she

becomes to you. If you discover that the feelings

between you and her are very serious, you have a

complicated situation in your hands.

The best thing you can do is to break up with

your girlfriend, but not to tell her the real

reason, say it that it doesn't work anymore; it

will be tragic for her anyway so it is better to

not find out that you are having an affair with

her best friend. This means that you don't have

to run in the other's arms after that, it is

better that not make public your new relationship

for now.

Having an affair is not something plan, it just

happens. People decided to have an affair for

many reasons: disappointment in the relationship,

misunderstanding, also attraction, curiosity,

excitement, risk or challenge.