Have you ever kissed someone that you would classify as a bad kisser or someone that you just would not want to kiss ever again? If so, you have probably wondered if anyone has ever thought that you were a bad kisser. Many of us start thinking, what if we were the gross kisser of someone's past. No one wants to be a bad kisser, but how do you know that you are a good kisser? You can do a few things that will help to ensure that whoever you are kissing, so long as they want to be kissed, will enjoy your attention and affection.



The first tip to being a good kisser is being able to find the right moment to make it happen. This is especially true the first few times you kiss someone. If you act at the wrong moment you will find that the kiss gets really uncomfortable and clumsy. If you don't choose the right moment you may take someone off guard and they may pull away, leaving you feeling silly. Look for the right moment and don't over think it. When you over think the whole kissing thing it can get really ugly. So long as you believe that your partner wants to be kissed, you are in good shape.

The next step is to make sure that you change things up. If you always kiss the same way or you just repeat the same motion over and over again your partner is going to get bored or even a little grossed out. Do not be afraid to try new things, to keep things fresh, and to really enjoy kissing your partner. Usually when you just enjoy the moment and you avoid over thinking it, the kiss will go a lot better than if you simply do the same thing over and over. To be a good kisser you need to feel the kiss, which will mean changing the position of your head, the action of your tongue, the rhythm, and even the speed of your kiss.

The idea is to make the kiss comfortable for both of you. Many people think it is romantic to ask if you can kiss the other person, but all this does is build up the kiss and make it uncomfortable. If you build up the kiss too much your partner, and perhaps even you, are going to be disappointed with the kiss. Just find the moment when the kiss is right, look for cues that the person wants to be kissed, and then make it meaningful but keeping it interesting. If you do these things, your partner will come back for kisses again and again! Don't be the gross kisser!