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They say marriages are made in heaven. On earth, they are only brought to fruition. Perhaps that is the reason why most people do not exactly know what it means to get married. There are an alarming number of people who marry just because everyone is doing it or because their best friend just got married or because their parents tell them to do so. Certainly, if there is such a perspective towards marriage, it is not going to last.

In the Christian Church, marriages are not allowed before the prospective bride and groom can get to know each other. There are marriage preparatory courses in which the pastors elucidate the importance of marriage to the couple, teach them what it is, and only then agree to sanctify their nuptial bonds. Even after the marriage, the Church supports couples with encounter courses where they can learn methods on how to improve their marriage.

Looking at all these things, we must understand that it is highly important to understand and realize what marriage is before getting on with it. If you rush into a marriage, you are probably going to be one of those millions that are looking for ways and means to start saving your marriage. That is not done. Being wise about marriage is the best way to protect it for ever.

So, what is marriage actually? People would have you know that marriage is a commitment of two souls to stay together forever. Marriage is that, but marriage is also an unspoken pact of understanding each other and simply being there for each other in their times of need. That's what people mean when they say 'for better or worse, in sickness and in health'. When you know this right from the outset, you will not have to think how you can save marriage only a few months down the line, as most people of the world have to do today.

Most women marry with the expectation that they will change their husbands after marriage. Most men marry with the expectation that their wives will never change after marriage. But none of these things happen in reality.

You have to understand that marriage is not a makeover show where you make an attempt to beautify someone according to your needs. At the same time, you have to understand that as life progresses, people will change. If you have these two things firmly set in your mind, you will go a long way as a married man or woman.

Most importantly, remember that marriage is about respect. Remember that and you will never have to struggle to the life of your dreams. When you give each other space, and respect their individual feelings, your marriage is the safest there can be.

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Being a billionaire, on the other hand, is not a goal that will really inspire most people as it is so large that they won't relate to it and therefore won't take it seriously.

So what is the best way to set your financial goals?

I suggest that you aim at being in the top 5% for both income and net worth.

At the moment, to be in the top 5% income bracket in the USA you need to earn around 5 times the average wage and to be in the top 5% net worth bracket you need to have accumulated about 20 times the average net worth.

The beauty of this approach is that it automatically takes into account inflation and it also puts your standard of living high enough to be a worthwhile, inspiring goal. At the time of writing this article, you would need to have an annual income of around $180,000 and net worth of around $2 million dollars to meet the 5% targets in the USA.

It is easy to keep your goals updated as most newspapers report average income and net worth at some stage through the year and of course the internet has all the information if you can master the search terms to actually find it.

Another benefit in setting your goals with the top 5% method is that it requires you to reassess the dollar value of your goals each year. This is much better than setting a goal to be a millionaire only to find out when you finally get there that inflation has eaten the value away so much that your million dollars won't go anywhere near providing you your dream lifestyle.

So what does it actually mean to be in the top 5%? It means that you are doing better than 19 out of each 20 people. You get to live a better lifestyle than 19 out of each 20 people. You have more financial security than 19 out of every 20 people. In other words you're doing pretty well, especially if you live in a country like America, Canada, England, Australia, New Zealand, Japan or most of the European countries.

Being the best in 20 is not that hard to do. The bottom 10 don't really have the ambition to set serious financial goals. The next 5 probably set some sort of vague goal but don't have the determination to stick to them.

What this means is that if you take the time to set the goal and if you have the determination to stick with it then you should at least pass 15 of the 20, and that's a good start. If you then add to this the habits of studying success strategies and of putting what you learn into practice then you are pretty well guaranteed to make it.

If you are not in the top 5% yet then you will find that this goal should be big enough to inspire you without being so big that it scares you. Once you have hit the top 5% and still want to climb the success ladder you could always reset your goal to the top 1% and so on. Who knows, you could end up being a billionaire but you have taken the sensible strategy of moving up in bite size, relatable chunks.

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