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Books About Self Esteem

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In my over-twenty-year practice as an outpatient psychologist,



I get a lot of information from family members with low self-esteem nearly every day. It

colludes with every aspect of their lives, most importantly their

relationships. Self-esteem impacts job performance, raises,

promotions, and work locations--the bottom line being quality of life.

It is a immense matter.

I think of self-esteem as being made up of four foundations

experiences. I call them Powers. They can be found in an online publication

I have written about how these are created from our early family experiences and

how they show up in just about every later-life experience.

There is a self-test to discern which of the four Powers is a

strength and which is a weakness. Often we use the stronger

ones to compensate the weaker one(s). Every so often we just focus on

remediation of just one Power. In any case, once diagnosed, the

psychological work begins.

Confidence comes from having a good self-esteem, which can emerge

from any one of the four Powers. The first Power is Worth.

It frequently reflects early-in-life experiences, largely resulting from

messages gleaned from parents. It ties to religion, philosophy of

the world and chronic expectations based upon "how it went" when we

were very, very young. This Power, and the foundation concepts to

follow from the other Powers maintain our psychological space later life events.

How we "are" in the throes of any life event largely goes back to how

we "were" early on, and how our parents or caregivers taught us,

or left us to the elements.

Central to these experiences is the surfacing of our core

experience of self. It is either worth something or less than functional in

some way. The sense of self interacts with the environment, nearly

one hundred percent in the beginning, less so as we grow up and become psychologically sovereign. At any stage, it has value or is made different by life events.

In the latter case, there is doubt about self-worth.

Lack of confidence is the subjective experience stemming from

lack of basic worth. If we did not manage well in early life, or if

we feel that support is lacking in adversity, then there is

proportional anxiety about future events. Even in "the present,"

there is anxiety because lurking in the background is that ever-vague

but pressuring feeling that something is muddled. "Something will go

wrong or perhaps it is just me that is wrong," are comments I

frequently hear. The former is more of a response to early adverse

circumstances. The latter is a direct reflection of thoughts of

poor self-worth.

This is only one of the four Powers, any one of which can

contribute to the experience of poor self-esteem. I picked this one

to initially focus on because it is the first in line, so to speak;

meaning, the formation of this Power occurs earlier in our

developmental timeline and usually forms the foundation upon which

most of the other Powers build. In future articles, there will be

discussions of the other three Powers.

In short, to build confidence, first we need a foundation of self

that is worth something. Put negatively, lack of confidence reflects

deficits in our early environment, but more importantly, our

relationship to the experiences in that early time. What we

"came away with" is relatively stable even though the events that

formed our impressions have passed. The core of this identity we

call self, and its relative value we call esteem.

Dr. Griggs
Books About Self Esteem


If one didn’t look at the title of Dr. Tyler’s book, “Jesus Christ: Self-Denial or Self-Esteem," they might think they were reading a book about the life of Christ instead of a refutation of the self-esteem movement. Dr. Tyler takes a different approach that’s characteristic of some of the other books on critiquing self-esteem. He doesn’t exclusively argue that the self-esteem position is defective from a humanistic psychological approach as Paul Vitz does. Nor does he attempt to contrast each heretical thought and compare it to an exhaustive look at scripture references. Instead, he compares the notion of selfism to the life and practices of Jesus Christ. By so doing, he demonstrates that self-esteem flies directly in the face of what Christ was teaching others, especially His very own disciples.

In the introduction, Dr. Tyler makes the case that the new pop culture words, self-image, self-esteem and self-worth have one central focus: self. This being a recent phenomena (within the past 25 years), it has had a significant influence on the church and its teachings. He quotes Robert Schuller who says that a new reformation is needed and that being one centering on self-esteem. (It’s ironic that Schuller uses the word reformation. “The Reformation," nearly 500 years ago, affirmed the utter ruin and insufficiency of man’s condition and reinforced the complete sufficiency of scripture, grace, faith and Christ—a complete and utter opposition of what Schuller wants.) Dr. Tyler seeks to declare that the Bible’s emphasis is on self-denial, a concept that is apparently anathema to modern day authors. And where are, Dr. Tyler asks, the words of Jesus when he supposedly tells his followers to “love themselves, esteem themselves, accept themselves, believe in themselves, develop a healthy self-image, or nurture feelings of significance and worth?" Dr. Tyler looks for them in the next three chapters of his book as he explores the words, works, and parables of Christ.

Dr. Tyler explores Christ’s encounter with various people. Jesus was always other-oriented in that He was continually about His father’s business. His baptism, the cleansing of the temple and the meeting with the Samaritan women are just a few examples that Dr. Tyler cites as proof. The most striking evidence appears in Christ’s Sermon on the Mount where Jesus tells the crowd how to obtain blessedness (happiness). One would expect to find here Christ giving exhortation on seeking self-affirmation if the self-esteem zealots were true. However, Dr. Tyler cites five Beatitudes that Christ preached which further disappoints the selfism crowd. Christ proclaimed blessedness would occur to those who are poor in spirit, mourn, practice meekness, are hungry and thirsty for righteousness, and are merciful.

Leaving Christ’s words, Dr. Tyler explores the miracles of Jesus Christ. Jesus used miracles as proof of His divine authority, to give substance to His words, and also to demonstrate his other-oriented attitude by offering love and sympathy for mankind. Dr. Tyler gives several examples, healing of the leper and the Roman centurion’s servant, the calming for the Sea of Galilee, the demon-possessed man, to name a few. This shows Christ was focused on meeting the needs of others. Dr. Tyler also leaves the self-love advocates with a question as to where was the person who cried “I hate myself, I feel inferior and inadequate; heal me Son of David;" (not in Galilee apparently).

Dr. Tyler uses the parables to further prove that Christ was other-oriented. He gives a brief explanation on the purpose of parables. He explains the dilemma that many find as to why Christ spoke in parables, i.e., Christ intentionally hid from the disobedient and rebellious His mysteries. Dr. Tyler’s quotation from G. Campbell Morgan seems out of step however as Campbell’s quote muddies the water. It appears inconsistent with Matthew 13:15b. “lest at any time they should see with their eyes, and hear with their ears, and should understand with their heart, and should be converted, and I should heal them."

Dr. Tyler closes his book by acknowledging that undeniably self-esteemism is found in the scriptures. It’s origin is in Genesis 3:6, “And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her; and he did eat." This was the beginning of mankind becoming self-oriented. It’s clear to the reader that support for current selfism philosophy cannot be gleaned from the teachings or the life of Christ. Christ was certainly focused on doing His Father’s business as well as relieving the suffering of others.

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