At this point you might be thinking, “How can let a woman know I'm interested enough while still being mysterious and evasive?” The answer lies in a concept I've created called “The Video Game Theory” When trying to attract a woman you need to be like your favorite video game. You don't want to be too easy to win, but you don't want to be impossible. The perfect video game (and perfect man) is fun, challenging enough and has surprises around every corner. If you were playing a video game that consisted of one level and could be figured out in 5 minutes would you keep playing it? Of course not. What if the game was too difficult right from the beginning? What if your character walked 2 feet and fell off a cliff every time no matter what you did? Chances are you'd give up on it after a little while. The perfect video game allows you to play a little… shoots you down a little bit but always gives you hope that there is more to conquer, more to accomplish. New, exciting challenges come at you at each turn. In the same way you need to become an exciting challenge to women.



Another thing that a great video game does is ups the challenge just enough once you think you have it figured out. Why is it that we rarely go back to level one in video game once we're on level 9? Because there is no challenge there - no mystery. Also consider this; Very attractive women have dated some very interesting, mysterious guys that are at a 9 challenge level. Why would they want to “play” with you when you're on a 1 or 2 challenge level? They've played and conquered that level before with many men and it's really not fun for them anymore.