Can it be?! It's hard to believe, but millions of people are preparing to go back to school already. Speaking of which I've noticed how Financial Literacy programs are beginning to pop up in schools now. At last! Maybe Home Economics (am I dating myself?) will take on a whole different meaning?
Who taught you, consciously or unconsciously about money; parents or guardians, relatives, neighbors, friends and bosses?
How and what did they teach you?
All of us began learning about money somewhere around the age of 2-4 years old, by absorbing what those around us said and felt about it. How did your parents/guardians handle money? Was there tension in your household around it or were you surrounded by people who spoke openly and caringly about it? How did people speak about money (i.e. "Money doesn't grow on trees", "Marry someone with money", "Filthy Rich")? Did it flow from a place of generosity or scarcity?
Think about the 5 people you spend the most time with and look at their relationship to money. We can tend to surround ourselves with people who hold similar emotional patterns, so when you are transforming your relationship to money, seek out people who embody and have already created what you want in your life as you can learn a lot from them. If you recognize a characteristic in someone else that doesn't agree with you, consider the fact that it might resonate with you because you carry similar qualities. This is not necessarily easy to hear, but if you decide to learn from it, your awareness level will take a big leap forward.
I say, Your Money, Your Mirror, as healing your relationship with money ultimately starts with self-knowledge. When you become more self aware, you can then create conscious actions that serve your best interests at heart.
Think about some of the questions. Observe what memories and feelings come up and see what you learn from them.
Cheap Back To School
Getting children ready for school can be very stressful. There are a lot of things parents must do before the first day of school and parents feel like time is running out almost instantly. They know that they have to get the children some new school clothes and on a single family budget this is sometimes a task that is not very easy to accomplish.
Buying school clothes can be a very expensive undertaking if some prior planning is not done. Even with planning there is still stress because sometimes the stores do not have the right sizes of clothing that children need, and this is especially true in school uniforms. The use of uniforms is becoming common in many schools across the United States and since many people need them there is always a chance that the uniform shop will run out of them.
Trying to find stores that have the right sizes in uniforms to fit everyone in the family can make back to school shopping seem unbearable agony to many parents. Some school systems rely on mass merchandisers to get students the uniforms they need and if one location is sold out of a shirt, the parents are certain to find one at one of the other mass merchandise store locations.
There are so many items in school supplies to buy that the school system says that each child must have, that it is sometimes difficult for a parent to remember all of the items. These parents will find that they will have to return to the store on the next shopping day to get some items that were neglected but were on the list. Some parents keep the school supply lists from year to year to get better prepared for going back to school shopping trips.
Shopping for children going back to school can be a financial nightmare. The schools do not make it any easier when they add additional expenses to the list. Some parents could manage the fees for their child's classes if they only had one child in the home, but paying building fees, book fees and past due library fees that suddenly appeared for several children at home might put some parents over the top on their level of tolerance to education and school expenses.
Some parents put their foot down when teachers make their own requests for supplies at the beginning of the school year. Parents are really becoming unwilling to furnish things like sanitizing solutions, paper towels and tissues for the class to use throughout the entire school year. These parents might be justified in their feelings but will eventually give in because they want the teacher to accept their child with open arms and not start the school year off with hard feelings between them.
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