Peter was a fisherman, originally named Simon, whom Jesus chose to be one of his followers. An impulsive personality, Peter was prone to making mistakes. Several of Peter's blunders are recorded in the Bible books of Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. He speaks without thinking, acts impulsively, and breaks promises. He sounds like any one of us!



However, as we continue to read about his life, we see that Peter obviously learned from his mistakes. He goes on to become a recognized leader among Jesus? disciples. Jesus wasn't looking for a perfect person when he selected Peter, and he isn't looking for perfection in us or in our children. Jesus expects us to make mistakes, plenty of them, and then use those mistakes to learn what we need to lead our lives for him.

What is a parent to do about children's mistakes? It's a parent's role to take on an attitude that says, ?Mistakes are opportunities to learn.? We are to stop and understand why our children's mistakes have occurred, and then move forward.

It's not easy for parents to allow children to make mistakes. When our kids make mistakes, we feel inadequate. When we aren't able to control our child's behavior, we panic. If there is another adult within earshot, we are concerned about what they think about us as parents.

Some mistakes are easier than others to accept. When a toddler trips and falls down on the living room floor, that's OK; he's just learning to walk. Of course a first grader will mispronounce a word now and then; he's only learning to read. But how about a two year old throwing a temper tantrum? Am I able to say that she's learning to express her feelings? What about a teenager missing curfew? Am I able to say that she's in the process of learning responsibility?

Mistakes help kids learn skills they need for life: problem solving, negotiation, and resourcefulness. Let kids make mistakes! They will grow through opportunities to face a challenge, attempt a solution, sometimes feel failure, but eventually experience the satisfaction of a problem solved.