I've asked some people in my marriage compatibility mailing list, asking about their marriage compatibility issues and things they would like to hear about it. I have had a lot of suggestions to that email, so it seems great idea to reply to the 3 of the questions that I found common in this article. Here you go.

1) How to know for sure my spouse really loves me?

Ok. I'll try to be very careful here. What about this - if you indeed loves a guy or a girl what would you do to show that? How would you make it clear for your spouse to see that you really feel all warm and loving about him or her?

Mainly - you make your best to show your affection toward the guy or girl, don't you? You show interest in what that person tells you, maybe even look up at him or her for nice things he or she does and certainly show affection in whatever happens to that person. Your eyes glisten when looking at the other person. You seem quite keen to be in his or her company with the guy or girl.

Do you feel that kind of affection from your sweetheart? Is there some kind of interest in you? Show sympathy? I want you to see if it is so.

2) How to build up the love in our life together?

True love basically depends on feeling that you truly agree and I would say admire what you see in the other person and the things he or she says to you. So, you can try to look good for your partner and ALSO try to be more fascinating in your partner's eyes. If you note what your partner likes in the way you look and enhance just that. And, on the other hand, you can remove the things that your partner prefers not to see in you.

I am not suggesting about becoming obsessed on being exactly what other people consider that you should be, because there lays unhappiness and hard time getting other people to like you. No, I'm talking about having your guys' time together as pleasantly and enjoyable to both of you as possible.

And I certainly suggest you give compliments to things you find great about your partner. And, on the contrary, unobtrusively advise some small betterment, but very gently and never demanding. As in: "You know, that tie would look so lovely on you, why wouldn't you put it on?"

I talk more in my free marriage compatibility report to know more about being interesting to your partner.

3) The hardest thing about keeping a relationship alive is not to get angry on your partner.

I can't by agree with this one. Judging by the experience I gained, a person can react to things, which kind of look to him like some bad things that he experienced in the past. And those reactions can happen without him or her really being in control of it.

One good thing about it - the more we rest and the better our temper is, the less is the chance that such reactions can happen to us. So my suggestion is - rest more and do your best to keep your temper in good shape. I'll give some good advice on this in my future articles.