So is there anything you can DO about it? Well, as a matter of fact, there is. The thing is, most guys don't know this, and this is one of the FUNDAMENTALS of dating advice - how to AVOID the flake! So let's talk about how.



First things first - you need to tell her - point blank - that you HATE flakes! When you are standing in front of her working out when you are going to meet, look her right in the eye and TELL her that your time is valuable, and you totally get peeved when people flake out on plans. So in other words, you are only going to make plans with her if she is GOING to BE THERE.

Most guys feel that way, but they don't like to SAY that because it comes off as forceful and might actually put some women off. Well - so be it. I would rather have them say forget it before "it" actually begins, then to have them cancel plans on me after they were made.

The thing is, when you say this to a woman, you are telling her that your time is VALUABLE. It shows her that your TIME is more important to you than meeting her, which tells her in turn that your status is possibly a little higher than hers is.

So then, on the day of the date, if a woman actually calls you and DOES flake on you - now is the time to use a little "Cocky Comedy" on her. Tell her, "Well thanks a lot for the NOTICE! When are you going to make this up to me?"

Don't come off as hurt or really ticked off, you want to keep it light, but serious enough to let her know that you really do expect her to make it up to you. After all, your time is worth money! This will also amp up the attraction for her.

Now another method some of the PUAs of the day use to keep their Flake Out Percentage at an all-time low is to actually BE the one to flake. Counter-intuitive, I know. But, David Deangelo says that if you do that, what you are really doing is making ANOTHER date with her right there on the phone, and adding fuel to the fire of her anticipation. Which is ALWAYS a good thing.

I firmly believe that most men actually create their own problems with women. You will NEVER get to the point where you have NO trouble at all with women - no flakes, freaks or fights, but you can get to a point where you can head about 80% of them off before they happen. That is where the smooth sailing begins!