Mother love needs to be cultivated for the good of mankind and for the wellbeing of our sacred planet. The potential for this all-embracing maternal consciousness lies within all of us, male and female. Very often, it is when we hold our first child in our arms that the flame of mother love is ignited. Once burning, it cannot be extinguished. Throughout history, women have acted to bring the love and compassion felt for their own children into their community, their country and their world. Passionately expressing a mother's love, they have worked to create a better world for future generations. Their work has left a legacy for us to follow.
To the women who contributed to the inception of Mothers Day, the connection between mother love and the fight for social and economic justice and peace seemed self evident. To Anna Reeves Jarvis, Julia Warde Howe and Anna Reeves, (the daughter of Anna Reeves Jarvis), Mothers Day was much more than a recognition of individual mothers. It was an opportunity to use mother love as a powerful force for peacemaking, reconciliation, and community cohesion.
The History of Mothers Day:
Anna Reeves Jarvis
In the 1850's Anna Reeves Jarvis organized Mother Work Day Clubs that focused on providing medicine for the poor and on improving sanitary conditions. Then, during the Civil War, Mothers Day Clubs cared for all soldiers-irregardless of which side of the battle they had chosen. After the war ended, Anna Reeves Jarvis continued her peacemaking by working to bring people together to heal the deep wounds of those who had been divided by the war.
Julia Ward Howe
In the 1870s, Julia Ward Howe began organizing "Mothers Peace Day." After the blood bath of the civil war, she focused on voting rights for women and world peace. When war broke out between France and Prussia, she wrote an impassioned plea to mothers saying, "Our sons shall not be taken from us to unlearn all that we have been able to teach them of charity, mercy and patience. We, the women of one country, will be too tender of those of another country to allow our sons to be trained to injure theirs." At the end she implores, "In the name of womanhood and humanity, I earnestly ask that a general congress of women without limit of nationality may be appointed and held to promote the great and general interest of peace." Following unsuccessful efforts to pull together an international peace conference, and while the Franco Prussian war was still in progress, she began a global appeal to women. She implored women to speak out for peace asking, "Why do not the mothers of mankind interfere in these matters to prevent the waste of that human life of which they alone bear and know the cost?" For the next thirty years, Americans celebrated Mothers Day for Peace on June 2nd. During this time, mothers played a leading role in the abolitionist movement to end slavery and launched campaigns to protect children and to improve the working conditions of women.
Anna Jarvis
Anna Reeves Jarvis' daughter, Anna Jarvis is generally credited with the establishment of Mother's Day in America. She tirelessly organized a letter writing campaign so that the work that her mother waged for peacemaking would not be forgotten. In 1914, her efforts paid off when Congress passed the Mothers Day resolution, appointing it as a national holiday to be celebrated annually on the second Sunday in May.
Mothers Day Today
Today Mother's Day is a time for honoring and thanking our own mothers for giving us life, raising us and being a source of emotional support and love. It is that rare day to enjoy breakfast in bed, cards, and flowers from our own children and husbands. Mothers Day is an opportunity to celebrate mother love, the life-affirming value that is inherent to us all. And most importantly, Mothers Day provides us an opportunity to put this love into action in the defense of the sacredness of life.
Today, our greatest threat is from an indifference and irreverence for human welfare and the health of our planet. But mother's hearts are not indifferent. Heartbroken by the suffering and death of their own sons or daughters or those of another mother's child as a result of war, women around the world are gathering to fuel the flame of mother love, urging women to speak up, to say no to war and to work for peace. Together, our mother love is powerful.
Organize your own circle of women to fuel the flame of mother love in order to protect our children and the planet.
Help your children to discover and maintain inner peace, compassion and acceptance. Peace starts with each individual. Each child whose heart is filled with inner peace, compassion and acceptance will grow up to become a beacon for peace on Earth.
When we feel what others feel, our understanding will be real
Differences will disappear, loving kindness will be here
Every day, every night, show you care
Every day, every night, say a little prayer
Every day is a holy day
Every night is a holy night
(excerpt from The Christmas Dream, by Patti Teel)
Daughter And Mother Love
Callers and prospective clients often ask me, "Would you put your mother in an Option ARM?" I used to point out that my mother made two mortgage payments a month on a 15 year mortgage and paid it off in 10, because she knew she was going to live in her house forever. But when it came time to cash out to make some major home improvements on her beautiful old Tudor, we selected an Option ARM. A very different kind of Option ARM.
Many of you have read our articles about the Hybrid Option ARM or Fixed Option ARM mortgage. The phones at both East and West Coast offices have been ringing so much that the owner of the company is even fielding calls from customers on his personal number due to all the volume overloading the lines (you might get lucky and get him if you call, he waives application fees for anyone who gets him directly). Just like the hundreds of callers who reach out to us each day, my own mother saw the sense in the Hybrid Option ARM value proposition.
That's because unlike a standard Option ARM, the Hybrid has a fixed interest rate and payment for a period of time ranging from 3 to 10 years, and even after the fixed period is over most of them retain an interest only option. Now they don't have 1% start rates, but they do start anywhere from the high 3s (for excellent credit like my dear old mom) to the low 5s or equivalent. You can generally expect a minimum payment option on a Fixed Option ARM to have a payment of about 55% of the interest only payment at the rate of the note. In my mother's case, she locked in for 10 years and was able to pick up $100K for home improvements and debt consolidation for a monthly minimum payment of about $275. That's equivalent to the fully amortized payment on a loan of the same size with Zero Percent Interest. You heard me right.
Of course your mileage will vary with your credit history and the amount you are borrowing with respect to the appraised value of your property, but if you have a credit score of 620 or above and have at least 25% equity in your home, you probably qualify for this type of program. It's not quite as cheap as the start rate on the Option ARM, but it is a lot easier to understand and more stable to boot. The payment is fixed for a period of time, as is the interest, and you can make payments to principal whenever you want just like a regular Option ARM, but without the monthly rate variations. And it has a 15 year equivalent payment option on the payment coupon. Guess which one my mom likes to use?
If you guessed the 15 you're right, but now that she's on a more limited income than when she was working, having the flexibility to make a minimum payment when necessary helps her during expensive seasons, like the Holidays (spoils the grandkids like you wouldn't believe), or my Dad's birthday! And with the cash she pulled out, all of her credit card debt has been paid off and consolidated, so her monthly expenses have actually decreased, even though she's been able to upgrade all of the floors, fittings and furnishings with the balance of the money.
She loves it. I love her. Hey she's my mom. And if she's happy, I'm happy.
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