David Deangelo, well known “dating Guru” from Double Your Dating, recently interviewed Payton Kane, radio show host and owner of Seduce and Conquer. David Deangelo's interview series is famous for his various interviewees, a list of whom includes the famous Style (Neil Strauss), Grant Adams, Carlos Xuma and many other major PUA's in the dating arena.



David Deangelo's interview with Payton Kane was brimming with tons of helpful tips for guys looking for some killer dating advice. One of the first things that Kane reveals is a simple little trick about approaching hot women. He says to approach hot women as if they are “Ugly Bush Pigs” (his words, not mine!). The entire concept behind this “deception” is that men have no trouble approaching women they are not attracted to. Adding the factor of desire is what makes the approach difficult. Payton says the entire theory is based upon the tried and true adage that “When you want them, they don't want you. When you don't want them, they want you.” This concept is affectionately called the “Balls Factor” by Kane, and using the technique of picturing them as undesirable will enable the man to get the balls to approach her.

Kane reveals to David Deangelo that there are three factors that greatly affect a man's initial approach to women. The first factor is the way he dresses, the second is the way a man talks, and the third is his body language. Kane says if you learn how to master these three things, you will never again have trouble approaching a woman. The dress factor, or looking good, actually has nothing to do with “looks”, it means that you need to learn how to dress yourself to maximize your features and make you look more attractive. Another tip Kane gives to maximize your appearance is to get a tan. Tans make you look healthy, rigorous and active, and these attributes are appealing to women of every level. The way a man talks means that a man should make every attempt to sound intelligent, but above all – charismatic! Convey that you are excited about being you, and she should be too. Body language is important because body language conveys confidence, attitude and status in every move you make.

Kane tells Deangelo that the worst thing a man can do when trying to get a woman's interest is compliment her. He believes that once a woman knows that she can get you (which giving her a compliment will relate that to her) then she immediately loses interest and is looking for a bigger challenge from someone else.

So how does the average guy keep the attention or get the attention of hot women? Kane gives the listener several methods. The first method goes back to the “interest” factor. If a man communicates interest in a woman, she perceives him as easy prey and loses interest. Why is this? It all comes back to STATUS. Women are biologically engineered to look for status in a partner. If he is submissive – i.e. – complimenting her, chasing her, wanting her – then he is lower status than she is. However, if he is higher status, if she has to chase him to get him, if she has to conform to his life and his wants, then he is higher status and therefore worthwhile for her to pursue. One way a man can convey higher status is simply by communicating disinterest when he first sees her. Kane says, “Rejection is really on of the keys to getting laid”. Do this by breaking eye contact with her before she can break contact with you. Give her a look of amusement or mild disdain. Walk away. If she talks to her, talk to her for a bit, and then dismiss her. Tell her to go away! Then watch as she stews in it and can't help herself from coming back for more!

Eventually, of course, you will allow her into your presence. One of David Deangelo's key elements to develop attraction with a woman is to tease a woman (playfully) and use his Cocky & Funny techniques. Payton Kane also encourages this, busting on the girls and having a good time with her once you have her attention. Kane adds to this theory, though, adding a seduction element to David Deangelo's method that he feels are essential to seducing women.

One of these techniques is the “hair pull”. Plain and simply, Kane recommends getting your hands into a woman' hair as early on in the game as possible. One of the laws of attraction again is that the woman wants a dominant male. Using the hair pull technique is another method of demonstrating alpha-male status. The hair pull technique simply involves getting your hands in the back of a woman's hair and pulling it, gently of course, but with “command”. Pull her back and kiss her, or pull her back and tease her then release her to create attraction.

Kane has dozens of other dating tips and treasures that he gives to the subscribers of David Deangelo's interview series. If you are interested in becoming a subscriber, you can get David's e-book on my site, and get the interview series free for the first 30 days along with that on my site.